I've posted previously on this topic*, i thank everyone who answered. Today's topic is the follow up question that i need help with. We've been talking and staying away from anything physical. He says that he doesn't want to lose me, that he'll do anything to keep me. I asked him to cool it on the intimacy. He agreed that it did get in the way. The next day he started pressuring me for sex. Its been two weeks and i'm questioning whether or not i'm still in love with him. Am i beating a dead horse? Should i just move on?
* here is the link to the previous question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqP99fbrVLtR9QX8SxI6Jqnsy6IX?qid=20060926210549AAz3L4X
2006-10-18 20:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by FunnyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well its not like i'm a conquest... we've been together for over a year as the other question detailed.. just sucks. I don't know how to get out with out him causing a big scene. He keeps talking about marriage, obviously he sees things as fine.
2006-10-19 10:51:24 · update #1
It sounds to me as you have already decided that it's time to move on, but you're looking for verification. So here it is. Wandering eyes and questioning whether or not you are still in love after a two week period are rather strong indicators that you are not happy in your current relationship. When you consider an entire lifetime, a little over a year is a speck in the breeze. From experience, I can tell you that most likely, things will not change for the better. If you are dissatisfied in the relationship now, you will be miserable in the future....because some guys just don't get it! Best of luck in whatever you decide....and when you make the decision, don't look back.
2006-10-18 21:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he wants from you is sex, after he gets it, you will be off his list of "to be conquered". Get wise, and lose him. Guys get their kicks out of the pursuit, after they get it, it is not that appealing any more, and go after the next one. Beat this dead horse at the pass, and kick his butt to the side.
2006-10-18 20:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety if u dont love him then dont stick around that is just hurting u both go ahead move on if u can
2006-10-18 20:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move one, he is not respecting you at all
2006-10-18 20:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋