i am 13 and most the girls my age at my school have already kissed and ****, but the furtherest i have ever gone it hugged and held hands, is it normal? the other reason is because i am afraid of my auntie and mum, because i am scared i willl get into trouble because they probably think "i am too young" what should i do?
2006-10-18 19:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by Mintiez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wen i say they have kissed and **** i mean like the y have onli kissed not s.e.x gez i m onli not 13 not 18!
2006-10-18 20:25:20 · update #1
you're just fine hunnie..but if you think you're ready to move a little further either just go for it or if you're close with your mom..sit down and talk
2006-10-18 19:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by wish1oh1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be afraid .. very afraid of your mother and Aunt..... they are right you are too young to go any further then the stage you have reached now.
There isn't a reason to grow up quickly because believe me once you become an adult we all want to go back to our early teens when we had no worries, no bills and no babies. Life is much easier.
Have your boyfriend but don't go further, study hard and make something of yourself .. make your mother and aunt and YOURSELF proud of the woman you will become.... while your friends will be changing diapers at the age of 14..
2006-10-19 03:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are right. What the others do should be no concern to you. What you have is very genuine and special and needs not be lost at your age. Wait until you are much older. If the other girls have done this then you have very much more to brag about. Kissing isn't so bad but virginity is something you can only give once so wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
2006-10-19 03:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get the kiss and ****** it didn't show what ever you said and i am probably to old to figure it out. But I will say that you are wrong when you think all the others have done kissing and what ever ***** is. No everyone else has not done it and you don't have to either. And yes you will get in trouble in more ways then one.
2006-10-19 03:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you feel its right don't do the same mistake i did, I'm 20 years old with a baby boy that is 6... my gf got pregnant wen she was 14 and so was i so just be careful and listen to your conscience
2006-10-19 02:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by saul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,
the best advice I can give you as a male is that you stay a virgin until you have a real loving boyfriend that is willing to stick with you through good and bad, most males til they reach around 18-20 aint prepared to stick around anyway, most wont even admit that the child is theres when you know its theres so just keep doing what your doing and you'll be ready someday-trust me and beleive in yourself.
2006-10-19 04:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the fears...they are messengers telling you something...you are not ready and for good reason. 13 is way too young for ***** and your loving relatives know this. So do I! You have a whole lifetime ahead of you and lots of time for ****.
2006-10-19 03:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by redplanet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young. If you had sex at this age you would regret it. Don't try to grow up too fast.
2006-10-19 03:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go in the family way. Ignore others. Do the right thing.
2006-10-19 03:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by gunetilake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur 2 young 2 ****. Keep doin what your doin, start kissing when you want to.
2006-10-19 03:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by HighRoller20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋