i have a friend who knows i like her. we hang out a lot and we trust each other. how di advance our relationship into friends who fool around without beinga dick. like should i ask or just try kissing her.
2006-10-18 19:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same stuff as when you asked 5 mins ago I guess.
2006-10-18 19:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just go for it...you know what us chicks are like...we always have emotions. its hard to do no strings attached stuff but when it works its great.
The best ones I have ever had is when we discuss it first. We go through all of the rules like, if we are both out at the same place and one of us is picking up, the other can not step in. We also discussed how it was a learning process for the both of us and we had to be 100% honest and try everything that we had ever wanted. because it was no strings attached, it didnt matter, we never had to be embarressed or care because we knew it wasnt forever.
We got along so well, spent about 4 nights a week together for about 6months and then when I met someone I wanted to get serious with we cut it off. We are still friends now and both single again and when either of us want a bit of company we are there for each other, not as often as when we began, but only because we know almost everything about each others bodies and wants and needs that we can satisfy ourselves for longer periods of time.
Sometimes I think about how great we are together and how we should just get it on for real, but that would kill everything.
Emotions just ruin friends with benefits.
2006-10-19 02:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by katie.sugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just go for it, but before that I would suggest asking her if she likes you. If she says yes, tell her you like her but dont want to be in a relationship. Then try making out with her. If she lets you then your good, if not, just say you must have been confused and your better off friends. Also, if she starts getting too attached make sure you back off and dont talk to her for a few days, dont get sucked in.
2006-10-19 02:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, here's the deal. If you think you're an attractive guy, and she's the type of girl to mess around, then just ask her at the right time. In my experience chicks totally dig being told stuff bluntly.
2006-10-19 02:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by chairbeat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u just get yoyrself a g/f to 'fool around' with, and keep your friend your friend?
2006-10-19 04:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY KNOW HER AND SHE'S OK WITH IT THEN IT SHOULD BE FINE!BUT IF YOU HAVE YOUR DOUBTS YOU RISK LOSING HER COMPLETELY AS A FRIEND.BE CAREFUL!
2006-10-19 02:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by BAMBAM1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋