is it ok to allow ur boyfrend to kiss u and touch ur body??

Question

we r togrther from 2 yrs but we dont want to marry..

i m 20 yrs old and my bf is 24yrs old

Answer 1

if u dont wanna get married him better dont allow him to touch u if u wanna keep ur self honest for ur husband..and if u having any relation wid him them u will indirectly cheat ur would be husband..

Answer 2

Up 2 U

Answer 3

Are you in a plastic bubble for medical reasons? Otherwise you can do whatever you think is right. Assuming you know what's right or someone taught you what's right, not just to go with your gut or how you feel at the moment, but what is "RIGHT."

And, in my opinion, if you're careful to use birth control, condoms, and are willing to have an abortion if absolutely necessary, then go ahead and make out, make love, and have all the sex you want. There is no reason not to enjoy yourself from time to time.

I'm assuming you're smart, stable and secure enough not to become obsessed with "sex, sex, sex" and have it become the focus of your life or time spent together nor the sole reason you stay together?

Lust is part of love, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It is a feeling and a thought just like the compatibility, admiration, pride, and respect that make up the rest of true love, and the bond of loyalty, trust, and mutual benefit that keep it.

Answer 4

u guys r together from 2 yrs and u don't wanna marry. that's stupid . i think if u both r sexually attracted to each other then go ahead. u can allow him 2kiss u and even sometimes 2 touch u . but only if u tell him 2 get married 2 u first and then all that b'coz this is the story of ur life.

Answer 5

it depends on u that actually what to do, from one side u r telling that he is ur bf so u have gone together for movie or some where else as u r together from 2 yrs. and it is not necessary that u marry with him or not. if ur enjoying ur life then i am saying that u can allow but u have ur philosophy or style of living then ur heart will give u way what to do

Answer 6

i think its okay. just be sure that u are comfortable with the kissing and touching. as a matter of fact, it will create a bond between both of you. however, sexual intercourse is another matter. i don't think u want to have sex with someone who's not ur husband yet. once u had sex with him, i'm affraid u'll be more dependant to ur bf. i don't think its wise, it's unhealthy. you won't be able to think clear about ur relationship. learn from other's experiences so that u don't have to go through the same bad experience yourself.

Answer 7

Hey I think its ur own free will to decide how u wanna go about with a guy wh u know will not marry u???????

I think maybe he just wants to be ur friend for some physical Love

Answer 8

i don't understand your question but if i was your boyfriend i would be doing more then just touching you by now. The guy needs the touch and feel of your body in more ways then one. You must be some young teenage couple so I won't go into details.

Answer 9

you guys have been together for two years and you're not intimate? this isn't a relationship, sorry. I don't think you know the meaning of the word. You should let this guy go, so he can find somebody willing to actually be with him. If you haven't "allowed" him in 2 years, then forget it.

Answer 10

well judging from your grammar, you sound like you're .... 14 or so? so that's probably why you're having reservations. it's more natural and maybe a better idea when you're older. it's ok to get physical, just be safe, don't get pregnant, and realize that you're probably gonna break up with this guy and get your heart broken anyway, honestly. it can be hard to get physical and then break up with someone.