Ok, So, here I am again. My bf of 5 months broke up with me. He told me he loved me and wanted to spend his whole life with me. The ex came and asked him to come back. So, he flipped back and forth, til he chose her. He said, she was secure. He said he needs to see where it will go because he was never over her. He said it was hard for him because he knew what we had was special. I told him I would wait for him to find out if he wants to be with her or me. He said he doesn't deserve me and won't come back, even if they don't work out. I don't know if he means it or he is just afraid. I think he is just afraid of getting hurt and he knows what to expect from her.
2006-10-18 19:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you deserve better than being "second best." You need to move on and find somone who can love you as completely as you can love in return.
good luck...sorry you're feeling so much pain and conflict now.
2006-10-18 19:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Deana G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never got oevr his ex. its obvious.maybe eh was there with you as he was lonely,he needed someone after the break up. now that his ex is back, he left you.i guess he never had the real feelings for you, he knew he was cheating you deep inside-when all this while you were in love with him.i guess that's why he said that he doesn't deserve you and that he wont come back. get over him.you would be better off away from this kinda jerks! (sorry)
2006-10-19 02:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is beating a dead horse.
You need to get on with your life and leave the past behind.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-10-19 02:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sure you miss him honestly. Wait for him for a couple of months. Move ahead with your life, if he doesn't return by then. No regrets, and no hard feelings. Be able to say hello at the airport!
2006-10-19 02:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUhh Run away from that guy. He does not love you, he may want to use you but that's it. Have you ever thought that he may be have loved his ex more than you, that's why he is dumping you for her.
Move on and good luck. I have been though that situation so I know what I am talking about.
2006-10-19 02:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you deserve better than this? Is there some reason you believe no one will ever go out with you again, that you have to "wait" for this guy?
2006-10-19 02:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you friggen brain dead. Lose the jerk, why would you want to settle to be second best. I mean , he already has chosen her over you. Move on and get a better guy that you deserve.
2006-10-19 02:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert, but if a guy says he won't be back, then he won't. But it's usually for a different reason than what he tells you. Just move on honey, you can do better than that.
2006-10-19 02:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hillarious, its like in the movie "Old School" where Beanie is kissin this chik, and then says, "sorry, cant do it, i'm married. But why dont you leave me your number, in case something happens to my wife, i'll give you a call" find another dude
2006-10-19 02:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats beating a dead horse....
2006-10-19 04:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋