I was in love and still is in love w-this guy and we broke up like almost two yrs ago. I can't stop thnking about him. However, I received a disturbing phone call from of his relative telling me that he was shot and killed this past May. I was totally devasted. Someoneplease help me get over this distraught memory.
2006-10-18 18:59:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you can do is remember the good times . You never really get over a love what you do is learn to love someone else and you usually love them in a deifferant way than the first
2006-10-18 19:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but no one can help you get over it. They can try to be there for support but you are the only one that can deal with your feeling. You really don't want to get over the memories. Memories are the only thing that makes a persons life mean anything. If everyone forgets them then their live means nothing.
honor him by remembering him for the good and the bad. make his life mean something.
2006-10-19 02:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to erase the memories... just cherish the good memories as heart-treasures.
The distraught memory will fade away as you focus more on the cherished memories... GBU
2006-10-19 02:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories were there no matter was it gd or bad. glad that he stayed there even if is only for a short duration. Cherish the last memories, make it stay in your heart, afterall he was someone you love.
2006-10-19 02:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then accept the fact he is no longer with us,remember the good times and move on.
2006-10-19 02:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know, some memories just aren't meant to be forgotten. so why would u try to force yourself to do something that wasn't meant to be done? it doesn't make sense. i know you're miserable and all, but one day, .....well .. you'll think of something.
2006-10-19 02:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you need to relax & forgive yourself as we never know the hour of our death. So in order for you to move on you need to make peace with yourself & him and move on.
2006-10-19 02:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kerrie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry to hear of your sadness.
Get some help. You need therapy.
2006-10-19 02:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you will get over it when you allow yourself 2 :-(
2006-10-19 02:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by sirelyas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Master de said it best
2006-10-19 02:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋