so i have this friend i really like. i asked her out back in january and she said no. i asked her 5 days after her ex broke up with her so she was very sad. since then we have gone to dinner, movies, and even a picnic together. however she doesn tcallme to hang out i always call her. we are close. she givesme tight hugs. so what should i do . is she interested in me? should i tell her my feelings again? the thing is i cant keep hanging out with if i know nothing will ever happen. so tell me what i should do.
2006-10-18 18:56:45 · 5 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said NO and if she changed her mind, I think she'd let you know. Did she say, No, I'm not ready to date anyone yet? Or did she just say No? I suspect that she sees you as as good friend. I suggest you tell her that you're still really attracted to her and that it's hard for you to just be friends so that you can't hang out with her anymore. If she wants to be more than friends she'll let you know... otherwise, it's time for you to move on and start meeting some new girls.
2006-10-18 19:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 19:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you had better put your little unprotected heart back in your pocket. If she was in to you she would let you know and it don't sound like she is so just forget about her and find someone that likes and take them on a picnic.
2006-10-18 19:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant just be her friend then let her know. Try to find a non-jerkish way to say it though.
2006-10-18 19:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by sirelyas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you are her rebound....
2006-10-18 18:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by kawaii-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋