We only went on one "date" and I've only known him 3 wks, he already wants to be in a relationship, should I be concerned?
I am concerned and feel it's too soon, am I right to feel this way??
Thanks for any help!
2006-10-18 18:50:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... The point of going on dates is to develop a relationship right? I mean if that wasn't the point, then why were u on a date? If u have no interest in a relationship, then u should make clear that it's just a friendly outing together as friends, but not a date or something.
2006-10-18 18:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to feel this way, sometimes you get swept away by someone and you don't notice that you ARE in a relationship after only one date. You shouldn't be bull dosed into one though. That kind of urgency can stem from several locations from just getting out of a relationship and needing another one right away or maybe he just really feels it for you. It is weird when they come on so strong, its like a smoke screen, like are they manic, controlling, abusive, totally normal. There is no way to know. Good luck and be careful!
2006-10-19 02:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool off for a week and analyze your feelings. The fact that you are seeking counsel shows you haven't discounted him as yet. That is good. Take a little time to scout around for his antecedents. If his track record is of mature judgments, there is no harm in going ahead. On the contrary, if you are yourself keen on knowing more men intimately before getting committed, he cannot be your choice. He is a " TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT " type.
Fragile material.. handle with a lot of care!
(My girl of the past thirty five years did accept such a proposal from me!)
2006-10-19 02:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved in with my man after knowing him 3 weeks. We're still together today... 2.75 years later. Love is strong. It's okay to feel that way, and it's okay to be in a relationship too! Tell him he MUST take you out on more dates to get to know him better, and that he will have to wait until you decide you want a real relationship too.
2006-10-19 01:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are right for feeling concerned. This is to soon to be in a relationship. Date him somemore. Dont rush into anything.
2006-10-19 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by grace3940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you got out with him ur considered a relation with the guy of course it will not be a full relation at the beginning but it is called a relation. U decide if u want it to go to the next level or not.
2006-10-19 01:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a Klinger, sounds like a stage 3 klinger, if you agree he will move right on to stage 4 and you don't want to reach stage 5, cut him loose now while your only at stage 3
2006-10-19 01:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Urial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you feel that way you are right. Tell him you feel that way and probably take a break from him and see what flows. Never second guess your reactions. If you second guess, you'll lie to yourself and wake up 20 years later with the wrong person.
2006-10-19 01:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not taking it slow... and depending on what you want should determine your next step. Do you like him? Are you attracted to him? If so... Tell him you'd like to go on a couple more dates before accepting this as a relationship.
If not... tell him good bye and thanks for the fun, but you are not ready for a serious relationship and you just want a chance to do things before getting into one.
2006-10-19 01:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trouble. After 1 date - wanting a relationship is a sign of mental sickness.
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2006-10-19 01:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋