Are men attracted to chubby, padded women or thin women rule..?

Question

I am a woman who's is 5'5' and I weigh 230lbs. Would any matured, educated man be attracted.... for a realtionship.... please be honest....or am I too fat???

Answer 1

I personally don't like women that are too thin and most guys that I know tend to like women that are a little, I guess, thicker. If you're pretty, confident and have a great sense of humor you are attractive no matter what your size is. I guess the real question is, is how do you feel about yourself? because that's what comes through. believe it or not guys do pick up on things like that.

Answer 2

First of all, you need to decide if you like your size or not.. Men are attracted to confidence. If they think you don't like yourself, why would they like you? I have always carried junk-in-the-trunk ( the f-a-t word is never used by me ) and I never have any problems getting dates...Why? Because I believe I am smart, hot & beautiful. Yes some men, only want the thin girls in magazines, but there are plenty more that find us attractive. And there are men out there right now looking for you. GO FOR IT!!

Answer 3

Men are attracted to confidence and health. If you are not healthy or concerned with your health, then he is going to look elsewhere. There's lots of skinny girls out there. Do like me and diet and exercise, and forget the guys... just lose the weight for your self esteem. Guys will come along automatically. Forget looking for love, and let love find you while you're taking REALLY good care of your (only) body.

Answer 4

Some of us like Women in general, I like thick women as well as slender ones, the main attraction for me is how she presents herself to me. If she can carry an intelligent conversation then I am in. Self confidence is also a big turn on.

Answer 5

a man with a good loving heart would be. don't put yourself down. you're beautiful and everyone deserves to be loved. when you find a man that does, for who you are, without you changing a thing about yourself, than you'll feel so good because you know you're truly loved for yourself. if you're personally upset about your own weight than you should go to weight watchers for moral support and a convient afforable way to lose weight. be careful for the guys that have a fetish for bigger women, you don't want that, you want a man to love you for your heart and soul, not your body though every woman wants to be wanted and feel attractive, it only counts if the man has true feelings that go past your beauty.
hope you find the man of your dreams;-)

Answer 6

I think there are some who do. Someone said you need confidence and I agree with them. My ex-husband always complained about my weight and made me feel horrible. I gained weight because he refused to spend time with me. I'm pretty and I know it, but I also have a weight problem. But guess what, I found someone that was interested/attracted to me and he's drop dead gorgeous. It can happen!

Answer 7

my personal take, your weight is not a problem. Obviously medically a doctor might make comment, but cosmetically, in my opinion the outside is not important. what is important is who you are. I have dated women all across the spectum. I like people for who they are. as far as looks, in my opinion someone looks good as long as they are proportioned properly. I think Queen latifa is very pretty and she is not Thin. she is proportioned, and she looks good that simple.

Answer 8

You could find someone who likes Big Beautiful Women

Answer 9

i look for gals who are as thin as possible, caz, i find thin gals are too hot,,,, but in your case, if you are hot enough, Men should get attracted,,,,,,
at the end of the day, its your character gonna keep a guy not the look,,,, look fades, but the char shines

Answer 10

sure, lots of guys like bigger women