I have done this before, but have not experienced female ejaculation in quite some time...mostly due to my partner not being comfortable with it. I talked to him today about some of the issues we have during sex, he made it out to be my fault...typical. Anyway Now he's "cut off" for a while even though I'm extremely horny, as usual. I need some tips on how to experience female ejaculation again, I remember it being so incredible I just can't get it now!! Help please!
2006-10-18 18:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want tips on how I can masturbate...not on my sex life with my boyfriend. I understand that sex happens between two people and both need to work on it...the thing is my boyfriend has even accused me of cheating on him with my Dildo! He use to be able to have sex with me all night now it's 4 minutes..tops, he says he's broken and leaves it at that, I have asked him to see a doctor, cock rings,, creams...everything. This has been going on for a year now...and frankly I'm tired of having to just shut up about it because it hurts his ego. When I spoke to him today about it he told me that he doesn't know what I'm talking about and it's obviously my fault because "I take too long" He is being selfish and childish about this whole thing and needs to see a doctor! I'm not trying to blame the fact that it doesn't work on him, I'm blaming him for letting this go on for as long as it has.
2006-10-18 18:53:50 · update #1
He sounds way selfish and insecure. How in the hell is that normal, him not being comfortable with a natural, beautiful thing? He needs to read a few books or something. Was he ever abused sexually? If if is something the two of you can't see eye to eye on, maybe there is a reason.... while you figuring it out, go get yourself a couple vibrators honey. They have really come a long way.
2006-10-18 18:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is half-right if he blamed you for it. As a Counsellor, I have been able to help women who care for a healthy release, by only training them to handle the gymnastics of the Game.Try and get your legs into a locking position at the feet when you have been sufficiently stimulated.Use the locked pair of legs to manipulate the movements of his organ towards the upper wall of your Vagina. It takes a bit of practice. But it gives excellent results, and has saved a number of marriages of healthy but unsatisfied women. And don't forget that God has given the most manipulatable organ in the whole body, ..your middle finger of either hand. If and when there is a deficiency in the release feeling , you can stimulate your G Spot with the little help from that reliable finger. The big Switch is right behind the spot one inch above the Clitoris tip.Practise reaching it and you will be rewarded for your efforts.
2006-10-18 18:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all by having a convo about sex not being all that with your bf...really isnt going to help your situation. Why didnt you take a trip to a Lovers lane or any adult ship together and buy a toy from him to use on you? Guys respond better to making the sex out to be an adverture...then a chore. Sex is suppose to be fun...issues really shouldnt be allowed. If you put to much pressure on it...it like work. An dnow by saying he is "cut off"...he has NO CLUE what to do. You want to work on your sex life...but you cut him off from it?..lol
2006-10-18 18:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest getting yourself a little sex toy from the adult store or via the mail. When shopping for a sex toy the choice is completely individual. I would recommend one that will give you clitoral stimulation.
I'm sorry to hear your mate is being so insensitive. Just experiment and you will find what works for you.
2006-10-18 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to get married. That's the best sex toy for both G-Spot orgasms and ejaculation. Try it, you'll love it.
2006-10-18 18:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice up the relationship, don't be embarrassed to bring toys or videos(trust me they work) or you can also live up your fantasies let you imagination flow.
I'm no trying to sound like a perv, but it does help on you relationship sensually. Consider it!
2006-10-18 18:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by mayaprincess68 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
buy one of those $10 vibrating pocket rockets at a sex shop....turn it on and touch it to your clitoris.....it'll make you ejaculate in about 10 seconds
2006-10-18 19:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THROW U A FLICK IN THE DVD PLAYER.GRAB U SOME WARMING K-Y JELLY AND LET UR IMAGINATION RUN WILD!!!
2006-10-18 18:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by LADONNA W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF HE'S NOT DOING THE JOB THEN DO YOURSELF
GET A TOY TO PLEASE YOURSELF OR GET A NEW MAN BECAUSE WHAT ONE MAN WON'T DO THE NEXT ONE WILL
2006-10-18 18:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes right to blame you.. its as much your responsibility as his.
each woman is different, figure out what you need to come and ask him to do it - thats really all you can do.
2006-10-18 18:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by attila 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋