everytime i try to communicate my feelings to him, all i get is a frozen response! All i want is for him to understand me, especially my emotions because i believe God made women to be emotional beings with a purpose of teaching men how to develop and appreciate their own emotions. I find balance and strength in being heard and understood. Whenever i tell him my concerns, he invalidates my emotions, telling me i'm just being too emotional and just making a problem out of what he thinks is nothing. How can i make him understand and appreciate my emotions? How do i deal with him, especially his insensitiveness?
2006-10-18 18:21:08 · 7 answers · asked by Corin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to be less emotional and there shouldn't be any problems.
2006-10-18 18:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try by saying it's obviously not nothing if it bothers you, or that it may not be much to him but it is to you.
if you really cant get through to him, try to get another man.
about your feelings about god making women more emotional, many men may find this a slight because many men dont need help developing and appreciating their emotions.
2006-10-19 01:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is as cold hearted as he sounds, I would find a new boyfriend! Don't expect him to change!
2006-10-19 01:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would begin to say "be patient" but after re-reading your dilemma, i feel just dont lend a ear to him when he talks stuff to you.
He wil get the hint!
2006-10-19 01:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by choilein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reverse psychology.
2006-10-19 01:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Womz M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kick him to the curb , and kick rocks... he won't change..
2006-10-19 01:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect solution: stop talking.
You're welcome.
2006-10-19 01:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sunder Zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋