he thinks im cheating on him, but am not, he thinx im always with a guy or talking to a guy, he dnt let me wear certain things, or talk on the phone or go to friends houses, i know u think i should leave him, but what should i do to make him believe me, or trust me??
2006-10-18 16:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by lori M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he used to be a big player, but he swears to me that he hasnt ever cheated on me, i just dont understand why hes doing this to me. i have never hurt him
2006-10-18 16:48:10 · update #1
move on if he is like that
2006-10-18 16:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a person is that insecure about the fidelity of a significant other, it means that they are cheating. It makes them feel better to put you down and accuse you, because then they don't feel so bad. There is nothing you can do, short of giving up your entire life, to make this guy trust you.
2006-10-18 16:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by cheermb22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two reasons:
He has cheated on someone or is currently cheating on you, making him paranoid.
He has been cheated on and does not want to get hurt again.
Trust if very important and if is not there then there is no point in having a relationship.
2006-10-18 16:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks this about you because he is the one cheating. You need to watch this fellow closely. When a man accuses you of cheating that is becasue he is the one being unfaithful.
2006-10-18 16:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. He is insecure with himself and so you are in the line of fire. And yes, by the way you should leave him because you cannot change him.
2006-10-18 16:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, not a damn thing he evidently has issues of his own.
not to hurt you, but he may be cheating on you and have a guilty conscience. alot of dudes act this way when they re up to no good.
2006-10-18 16:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by yubuggin? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT NOT ABOUT TRUST YOU, IT ABOUT CONTROLLING YOU
AND A DIFFENT, IT REALLY SOUND LIKE THAT HE CONTROLLING YOU MORE THEN HE DOES NOT TRUST
YOU. AND YOU REALLY NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT
THIS, BECAUSE IT REALLY DOES NOT MATTER WHAT
YOU SAY OR DO, IT WILL NOT MATTER TO HIM BECAUSE
HE WANT TO CONTROL YOU NOT TRUST YOU.
2006-10-18 16:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋