I am an independent, strong, single mother and student. I am told by many men that I am a beautiful woman and that I am everything a man would want in a woman. For some reason, men just don't approach me. What could be the reason?
2006-10-18 16:35:56 · 11 answers · asked by radiantqueen_t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may be a little intimidating to men, as other responders have pointed out. You may have to work at being "approachable." Smile, look men in the eye, make a little small talk, even ask a question like, "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or something simple like that. Have a warm, friendly manner, use perfume, be interested in what men have to say.
2006-10-18 17:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are intimidated by strong independent women.. I know this seems tough but take it as a compliment. Someone will eventually get the confidence to approach you... just wait. In the meantime, be confident in yourself and have fun!!!
2006-10-18 16:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by cheermb22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your neck is too small, oh wait that isn't your pic. I don't like independent women. Guys like to spoil someone they love, if you are independent, you probably hate getting gifts, or accepting compliments, thinking there is some hidden motive or something. But I don't know you. Maybe you like getting close to someone, and then push them away because you don't want to be hurt again. Take a communication class and you will see how your posture will make people stay away from you or make them come closer.
2006-10-18 16:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by DallasGuy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just said this a couple of days ago, men seemed to be in there own little world and women are not included these days, I have the same problem
2006-10-18 16:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I seem to have the same problem, and ask people about it all the time. What I am told is that I don't make myself available. I don't understand it, I have been divorced for 2 plus years and only went out with one guy, and that wasn't until May. Then he went back to his ex girlfriend and now, here I am again, wondering if I will be alone forever. If you find the secret, please share.
2006-10-18 16:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by nursejuley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are most likely intimidated by you.i had a friend that was drop dead gorgeous (got stares wherever she went) and she didn't get asked out or anything like that by guys.but she was talking to some guy that she met.and he said,"ya know,you're beautful,but if i saw you out somewhere,i would never approach you.",and she went,"why not?",and he said,"cause you're intimidating.you're smart,in shape,and gorgeous.that intimidates men.plus,we hate rejection."
2006-10-18 17:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
whilst i replaced into single, i replaced into far too shy to do the arriving many of the time, till the guy appeared fascinated yet replaced into much extra shy than i replaced into... yet I ain't single and have not been considering that i replaced into 2 many years previous.
2016-10-19 23:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by delcampo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men might think that ur so pretty like they say that u already have a guy
2006-10-18 16:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by xX_lexmac_Xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be the type that act, what we call, stuck-up. No offense, but you probaly running guys away.
2006-10-18 16:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe they are scared to because you are so pretty and maybe they think they are not good enough for you
2006-10-18 16:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by thats me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋