Im a 17 year old boy, and there is this girl i like who ive only talked to once on myspace. One of my best friends plays volleyball and this girl that i like is also on the volleyball team. I just have a fealing that i like her, she seems really nice and is very cute. what do i do from here, without seeming creapy or desprate? I really appreciate your advice THanks!
2006-10-18 16:19:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to one of her vball games and cheer her on, but let her friend know that you'll be doing that so she's on your side. Otherwise you'll just weird her out.
2006-10-18 16:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to make sure that you do like her. Second, you could hang out at your friend's games more often, to hang out, get to know each other and see if there really is something there. Just don't go to every single game; try to go once a week or something. See what her reaction is; and go with the flow. Good luck!
2006-10-18 23:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely go to the game and take note of anything she did really well during the game (dive, set, or whatever). You could message her on myspace again and congratulate her on a game well done and ask her when her next game was. Associate yourself with her friend - say he/she pointed her out to you. Maybe ask her out to a celebratory dinner with you and this friend after the game - french fries/salad or whatever. Swap e-mails or IM names/numbers and see where it goes from there. If she declines offer a raincheck and try again next time. "Hey! So and so and I are going to Mc Donalds, you wanna come along?" That's how my boyfriend of three years snagged me! Good luck to you!
2006-10-18 23:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Im 18 years old and in college so maybe youll take my advice more seriously... just talk to her and get to know her. if shes anything like the rest of the girl population shell be glad that you took the iniative rather then standing back... hope this helps!
2006-10-18 23:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by ltlwestblnde514 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her a bit more on myspace. tell her that you' ll be coming over to watch one of her matches. When the match is over go and talk to her to congratulate or cheer her up!! Then start flirting with her slowly. Watch for her reactions. When the flirt become quite strong, ask her out!! Luck n courage!!
2006-10-18 23:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say have a real conversation in person or just say hi. Just let her know that you are a real person and not just someone on the internet. Get to know her a little more to figure out if you really do like her or not, you don't want to lead her on, that would be horrible.
2006-10-18 23:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just have a feeling that you like her, you might just want to start talking to her in person and find out what kind of person she is and all that good jazz. then if you find out the you still like her, just ask her out on a casual date and see how things go from there. if things dont work out dont worry about it.
dont
-follow her around without talking to her--she'll think your crazy and creppy
-dont try to show off in front of her
-dont use a corny pick up line
-disrepect her or her beliefs
do
-treat her like a lady
-get to know her before any initial move is made
-go with the flow; dont try to force anything on her.
just be yourself and see how things go and you should be fine.
best of luck to you
2006-10-18 23:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Manna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go to one of their games. That's not creepy or desperate. Then after the game just ask her if she wants to go somewhere. Be like, "hey, wanna get something to eat?" You'll know right away if she says, "okay."
2006-10-18 23:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she goes to the same school... approach her and talk to her. Simply say "I was at the game the other night and saw you..." Talk with her in person, as if she was a friend. If you find yourself more interested... then flirt. She'll give you clues if she's interested.
2006-10-18 23:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her more wether on myspace or in person. The more you talk to her the better chance of ya'll dating. Take a chance!!!
2006-10-18 23:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋