I work at the local library... no I'm not askin if that's wierd... but there is a couple of girls and their mom who come in all the time and use the computers. I talk to their mother a lot and kinda flirt with the two girls, about as much as I do with all the other high school girls that come in, but I think that their mother is trying to hook me up with the older one, she's a sophmore, I'm a senior. She asked me to go to the football game with them, as I have never been to their football games before because I go to a private school. She's a nice girl and not bad looking, I think it's kinda whacked but I guess that depends on their relationship, what should I do?
2006-10-18 16:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by CJT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be gracious, accept the invitation...and go to the game. Who knows? You just might have the time of your life.
2006-10-18 16:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're telling us that you have a problem dating someone just because their mom wanted you to hook up? That's 1/2 of the trouble right there in dating out of the way. She's not that older than you so what's the problem again?
2006-10-18 23:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like her you should ask her out... otherwise you should just take your time and let her know that maybe you're interested in her but not her MOM. Lol. Try to keep your focus directed towards her because her mom is a little creepy, and I think that it's a little weird that she's a sophmore. But, if you like her... Go for it as long as you treat her right.
2006-10-18 23:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by iLoveHugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go I say, what have you got to lose?
You can meet the person you will spend the rest of your life with in the weirdest places, in your case, you just might find a fantastic relationship with a girl who comes to your library.
By the way, you already have the approval of the mother too!
2006-10-18 23:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the football game, unless you really got something else going on that's better. it is kinda weird to be going on a "date" with a girl, with her mother there too. Probably they're just being real friendly, nothing wrong with that, but you gotta go to find out.
2006-10-18 23:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Portango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they are regulars at your place of employment, I would think twice about going out with her. The mother seems rather intrusive to ask you for her daughter, but I'm not sure it's weird. If she starts suggesting names for your future children - that's weird.
2006-10-18 23:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Arikbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it dude because you already have the mom likeing you so thats one thing out of the way. She will most likely will be more into you if her mom likes you.
2006-10-18 23:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dj Valor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird..it's cute that the mom is trying to hook you guys up. Just be open-minded and give it a shot. good luck!
2006-10-18 23:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the game have fun bring a blanket if its chilly its nice to see kids having good relationships with their parents these days.
2006-10-18 23:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in the girl then go... if you'd rather find someone who is closer to you in age... then politely say, I'm sorry but I have plans.
2006-10-18 23:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋