Would you rather be with a guy that gives you gifts, money and whatever else you need but he only wants you for sex.... (basically a sugar daddy)
or ......
Would you rather be with a guy that ignores you doesn't appreciate you, doesn't give you gifts or anything but says he loves you
Please pick one or the other and give a reason why you made your choice
2006-10-18 16:17:50 · 29 answers · asked by geom1974 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want anyone to get the wrong idea abt me...I am neither of the choices given...the question just popped in my head and I thought it would be a good question to get a rise out of people and really make them think about what they truely value- a warm I love you from a caring person or a good time with no commitment.
2006-10-18 16:30:04 · update #1
You had me until....
"but says he loves you".
Saying it and showing it are to different things. I would rather FEEL that a guy loves and respects me because of his actions then just because he SAYS the words. KWIM?
2006-10-18 16:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried the regular relationship route ... and chose love ... only to find out that at the end of the day, he was a jerk and I gained nothing out of the relationship.
So, I'm trying the Sugar Daddy thing now .... I met this rich guy, who is about 15 yrs my senior. He's hot, rich, classy and a gentleman. But its not just about money and sex, its actually far more beneficial than a regular relationship -- I get a best friend who is also my mentor. With so much to gain, I really don't know why I'd date losers again just because of "love" ... I think its an illusion.
Anyways, I met my sugar daddy here:
www.seekingarrangement.com
It's the Largest Sugar Daddy Dating website / personals, and most of all it is FREE for us Sugar Babies.. good luck!
2006-10-18 22:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would have to say that I would choose the sugar daddy. I'm never done that but why be with someone with strings attached and not getting not even a sweet warm I love you, so I would get the sugar daddy no strings attached and at least I can get the real joy of being with either jerk :)
2006-10-18 16:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a tough one... i would say neither but if i have to pick the sugar daddy - atleast he doesn't ignore you, but no one likes to be used for sex unless ur a whore. Heck he buys you gifts. I hope this doesn't make me seem shallow. Because i believe in love not just sugar daddy's.... I hope that answers ur question!
2006-10-18 16:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SUGAR DADDY Please....I was married to number 2 already and that was no day at the beach. I think it would be nice to go to sleep in Fendi and wake up with Prada..shopping and having lunch with the girls...so what i have to have sex with him...I had sex with someone who treated me like crap and I did everything for him and didn't even get a birthday card....ohhh yeah...any sugar daddy out there????? I want some candy!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 16:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, both choices really stink and most girls would choose neither. However, if I had to choose one, I would choose the first one because he is at least showing he cares, even if it is the wrong ways for the wrong reasons.
2006-10-18 16:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually not all sugar daddy's just want sex. I am coming from experience. He said I love you and gave gifts and such but never pressured me in having sex.
2006-10-18 17:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was desperate then it would be the second question. Most women don't like to be used for sex. But on the other hand I will pck neither.
2006-10-18 16:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about both, that way I get the attention and the i love you!haha!
Seriously, I can do better than these two choices, so neither.I'd rather be alone than always pining for the attention that never comes or the love that's never there.
2006-10-18 16:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W T F*** THE ANSWER IS NEITHER
how about a guy who doesn't have the money to buy you stuffs
but he constantly tells you he loves you and demonstrate that your the most valuable thing in his life. he appreciates you and DOESN'T TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP!!!!!
BUT IN YOUR CASE I WOULD CHOSE #1
at least he demonstrate he cares about me
but really both options SUCK A**
2006-10-18 16:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋