hey everyone! well im 16 and believe it or not i never had a boyfriend and i dont really care but isnt that weird? i havent found the right person to be my boyfriend =( and i want a serious relationship! i dont want to last a week thats what i hate about relationships and im not even allow ot have boyfriends lol is that good for me and should i forget about boyfriends and move on?
2006-10-18 16:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a very mature 16 yr old to me. YOu know you don't have to have a bf. Just go to college and you will find a the guy that will stimulate you mentally and not just play around....you want a mature, responsible, respectful guy..you are doing the right thing.
2006-10-18 16:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I entered my first relationship and I still look back at myself (I am 29 now) and think of how young and naive I was then. You have so much to focus on at your age, a boyfriend should be the least of your worries. Besides, it sounds that with your positive attitude, you will wait until the right man comes along before jumping into a relationship just for the sake of having a boyfriend.
2006-10-18 16:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16, why be bothered with boys? Love will just come your way, right now focus on your studies. Who cares if you don't have boyfriend, I'm sure you do have a lot of friends.. Another thing if you want a serious relationship, i don't think this is the right time. you have a long way to go.. girl!
2006-10-18 16:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. Concentrate on your friends and having fun. When it's time to get a boyfriend, the right guy will come along and it'll all fall into place.
Think of it like buying a pair of shoes. You can go shopping all the time, but why buy shoes you don't really like just so you can "have" a pair? Wait until you find shoes that are so awesome you have to have them - and then take the dive...
2006-10-18 16:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Z Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16! You have a lonbg life ahead of you and boys are not that important. Have your own life first. Eventually you will meet someone who you hit it off with. High school relationships seem to change on a weekly if not daily basis. I have a 15 yr old daughter and she is the same as you. I tell her to worrry about her studies and have fun with her friends. Everything will come. if you give it time.
2006-10-18 16:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Stephani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. It's way over rated. I didn't have my first one until I was in college and nearly 21! Concentrate on school, planning for college, having fun with your friends. They'll be plenty of time for guys when everyone is a bit more mature :)
2006-10-18 16:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait! The greater you tension him with all this courting communicate, the greater you are going to push him away. It looks such as you are able to desire to be his pal appropriate now. If he purely have been given out of a courting, he's in all probability hooking up with you as a rebound and to deal with the discomfort. you do no longer prefer to be THAT woman. Be there for him and if he comes around then sturdy, yet you do no longer prefer to tension him into some thing he's no longer waiting for. the courting will by no ability artwork out that way.
2016-10-02 10:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say that you find a boyfriend at age sixteen. You fall in love with him and eventually marry Prince Charming , live happily everafter and have children with him. Your marriage is successful. Great! But, at age 50 ( which seems like never at your age) you've been married most of your lifetime.
Don't rush it. Experience your youth. It is a fleeting thing. And you can never return to it.
2006-10-18 16:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetely forget about it. I'm 23 at the moment and have a boyfriend but when I was 16 I hadn't even thought about boys in that way.....seriously, it is much better to wait...enjoy your highschool years and when you meet that someone later on, you'll know.
2006-10-18 16:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by doofynic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it too much, you're only 16. Most guys at that age are more immature than girls are. You always find what you're looking for when you're not searching for it. Live your life, and don't worry about finding the right guy, right now. If one comes along more power to you, but I wouldn't go looking for it.
2006-10-18 16:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by dusty_becker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋