My girlfriend just left me, perhaps if I start sending her diamonds she might come back.
2006-10-18 15:58:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget that hoe, it's all about me, REMEMBER? All eyes on me - The Mistress! :p And uh, FYI - I LOVE DIAMONDS! Diamonds, cash, cars...Gyeah! Hehe.
2006-10-18 18:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask what could you have done more of to make her stay, question is what did you do. Did you show her how much you care or did you hang out with your friends. Did you stare at the skinny blonde walking by or did to look into her eyes. Did you make her feel important or did you brush off that phone call she made to you.
It is the little things that mean a lot to a woman. It isn't the diamonds or the dozen roses. It is the simple things that make a woman smile. If you showed her that she was the most important person in your life and she still left it was probably because she didn't love you enough to tell you she wasn't happy.
The worse thing you could do is to stare at another woman while with your girlfriend, if your girlfriend was ever insecure in her mind you are looking to cheat on her. Now if she left you for someone else then she obviously didn't care about you.
If you want to get her back, start with the basics, a single rose, a poem, dedicate a love song to her on the radio, send her a love letter. Just don't make yourself so vulnerable that if she still turns you down that you over the deep end.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 23:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by miamac49616 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend JUST left you then go over to her house or call her right now and tell her you are so sorry for not really getting her.Ask her to talk and then you just listen!No comments.Do not try and Fix things.woman hate that.Apologize again when she is done yelling and crying and just hold her .Don't give her diamonds just give her your undivided attention.Good Luck!!
2006-10-18 23:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by amazonlady544 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not send the girl diamonds. After you do that, she's gonna enjoy breaking up with you to see if you can top off the last gift. If y'all are really meant to be toghether than she will come back. You will turn the girl into a golddigger if she isn't already.
2006-10-18 23:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Peep B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diamonds aren't the answer to everything. Maybe she had other things going on and she couldn't handle it all. Give her time and then see what she does. Just don't let her forget you are there or that you care for her.
2006-10-18 23:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are trying to buy her love. Diamonds are nice but they aren't going to solve any relationship problems. Only you and her can do that...together. It takes two. Just talk to her to see if you can pinpoint the problem. Let her know how you feel about her. Be sincere.
2006-10-18 23:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she needs diamonds to stay, then she's not worth your time. You can't make someone stay with you, you can't make them love you. The split is hard now, and it's a cliche, but time really does heal all wounds. Continue to live your life and you'll soon realize that if you have to buy her love, it just ain't worth it.
2006-10-18 23:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you send her diamonds she is just going to use you for them..and still leave you or cheat on you behind your back..if its over it means the relationship wasnt working and there was nothing you could of done to change her mind in leaving you..it's hard to fathom, but you will get over her..
2006-10-18 23:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! When someone wants to leave they will leave. Sometimes relationships seem unfinished or unanswered. If you love someone you will let them go. If it is really yours then it will come back to you. But if the person doesn't come back atleast you will grow from the experience. Do not waste your money on superficial gifts she will only like you and mislead you for your money. You want someone who loves you for you. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 23:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do taht. She left you because she doesn't want you. If giving her "expensive" gifts would make her come back, she doesn't really WANT "you", does she? If it's something you two can work out talk to her about it. Or try sending her flowers, girls are suckers for those *wink*.
2006-10-18 23:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by InfoMaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋