Ok so i have a crush and he used to always talk to me and give me hugz..but then his friends started telling him that he should go out with me but nobody knew i liked him not even my bffs....and then just out of nowhere he stopped talking to me..we werent the closest people but we werent enemies either..what should i do?
2006-10-18 15:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to ask him about it. May be someone has told him something bad about you. May be he just wanted to be friends with you and might have noticed that you expect more from him and hence he is trying to stay away from you.
2006-10-18 16:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you but is not sure how you feel. His friends got involved and that just makes things harder. If he liked you to begin with then now he would just being doing what his friends said. It is just a very complicated situation. If you want you can go up to him, if he hangs out with other guys that you hug just go over and hug all of them (include him). When you hug him try and whisper something in his ear...like " you should call me" or " Hey do you want to get a mocha" something just so that he knows that you are interested. If nothing else then at least you will have a friend..
2006-10-18 16:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe since he found out that you didnt tell any of your friends, that he feels that you dont reallly like him. Or he might think that you lied to him in some odd way. I would just ask him straight forward why he changed his ways with you. But dont make this crush an obsession. Good luck!
2006-10-18 16:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard to do, but show him your maturity by asking him if you could talk in private and then ask him about it. I have a feeling that he may be embarrassed because he doesn't know how you feel about him and now he just feel awkward because his friends have now made his feeling about you clear to you. Besides, would you rather worry about it and loose a friend or clear the air, get your friend back and maybe even more.
2006-10-18 16:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Blonde 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem. i had an insane crush on this guy for years and we talked all the time and he found out and got scared or something. i dont know what it was but i was bummed out that he wouldnt really talk to me after that. your crush probably found out and has mixed feelings about it. he could be scared. id ask him. i never got to ask my crush because he moved out of the country.
2006-10-18 16:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would cal lhim up and talk to him and ask whats the deal be honest ya never know good things could come.Thre worst that could happen is he keeps ignoring you so it wouldnt be any different
2006-10-18 16:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by greggypoo75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like intimacy. Get intimate with him if you know what i mean. wink wink.
2006-10-18 16:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be a woman.
2006-10-18 16:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dah he does not like you romantically
2006-10-18 15:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋