Ok, When people ask certain questions, they get - ignore, forget, act as if nothing happened!! Where has the Backbone gone! Don't us Women have the right to stand up and prove our Point/Get back when we are done wrong?????
Whats with all of this "Old Fashion" Lay low, don't whisper a word???? I was done wrong by a man with a common-law girlfriend who pretended he liked me.....after I slept with him...he told me he didn't know what he wanted and then to not text him for a while because he was scared "She" would see it.....He wasn't scared before the fact thought. I have this mans address, phone numbers, I've saved every unfaithful email he has sent me! I even know his Live-in-girlfriends email address. We aren't kids by the way "Late Thirties"
I want to stand up and show him that he can't just do this to anyone, especially ME!!!
Any Ideas Ladies???????
I know what gym she goes to and exactly what time..Should I go and befriend her??
2006-10-18 15:55:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really he doesn't owe you anything. He would owe you something if you were his wife, but you're not... and he has a girlfriend. I would leave well enough alone and not call him.
2006-10-18 16:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know about her before you slept with the man?
If you did, you are just as guilty and slipping out of the picture is the "right" thing to do.
If you did not know and he led you to believe you were his only Love interest, then the lady he is still with has a right to know. What you do not have a right to do , is befriend her for just the purpose of getting revenge. She is not the culprit here, she is a victim of this same man.
Simply let her know about what happened and also tell her that you are sorry, you wouldnt have pursued the relationship had you known about her. Then leave the picture and make a note to yourself to check the next guy out a bit more thouroughly before stepping into a sexual relationship. If you wait until marriage with the next one, he will have no choice but to be honest with you at some point.
2006-10-18 16:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a case of standing up for yourself hun it sounds to me like a bit of Revenge, you must have known about the live in g/f b4 you slept with him so what did you do it for did he promise to leave her or what my advice to you is get over it he wants to be with her not you so leave them both alone, or is it you want her to hurt like you are hurting if it was me i would move on and learn by the mistake i made but thats me. Get rid of everything and leave well alone and find someone who is single and not involved
2006-10-18 16:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋