Ive been going out with my 1st gf for a month and i'm not sure how far we should be now?

Question

This is my first gf and i dont know when i should do what as far as a timeline. Shes been hinting kissing for 2 weeks n we dont spend much time together alone tho. I just want some kind of quik guide to what i should be doing when n maybe how.

ok.. Im a senior, 17... n we havent done anything yet, barely hug.

Answer 1

i have a tendency to go slow myself, but this is record breakingly slow. First off, hug and kiss her ASAP...get that out of the way. After that, get on a regular kiss schedule. Now i am not sayin you have to run into bed with her, but some playful petting never hurt anyone. Just take things up a notch before ya both get dog-**** tired of one another.

Answer 2

Wait, hinting kissing? You haven't kissed yet? Wow. You might want to try that. o.O

There's no guide though. There's just, I suppose some things that are nice to happen. It's nice to have your kiss on the first or second date, if not then, at least by the third. This way they know that you are interested. Then holding hands is nice as well as putting your arm around her in movie theatres, etc. Show that you care, but don't be a pervert. Make sure they are ready for things.

Answer 3

It's different for different people bro. If she wants to kiss you, then by god kiss the girl! You don't have to necessarily be alone to kiss. Find a corner or go to a movie that's been out for a while.

Just do what you want to do. She'll respond by either letting you or not. Communication is key as well. If you sense or think she might not be satisfied, just ask her once and make it quick. Don't get into the habit of asking her a lot though. You're the man in the relationship and she will depend and want you to guide the relationship.

Answer 4

Never do anything that you're not ready for yet. You will know when you're ready for the kissing even if you are nervous about it. Speaking from my own experience, and I'm probably almost old enough to be your mom, be smart and don't do anything you'll look back on later and wish you would have waited.

Answer 5

First girlfriend... those were the days. Hey, if she wants you to kiss her, kiss her. Maybe you won't be able to kiss her when you're completely alone, but you could at least aim for something sweet and romantic. Maybe at a school dance? Best of luck to you.

Answer 6

My god, how old are you? After a month you should still be holding hands at the football games and passing notes in the hall between classes. It's only been a month anyway. Maybe that's a big deal to you but believe me, it's not a long time, especially because I can tell you are so young you probably don't even have any pubes yet.

Answer 7

Why no longer make your sister experience particular and share your good information along with her first privately? tell her you weren't attempting to scouse borrow her spotlight (in spite of the fact that she might delight in having countless the attention/rigidity taken off her) yet those issues of course ensue and you think of this is going to be kinda cool that your toddlers would be so close in age and can boost up jointly :)

Answer 8

Just be yourself, and if you not ready for her hints to kiss, just tell her that you are not ready.

Good luck with your first Girl man, I'm almost a month with my first.

Answer 9

Just take it slow and when the time is right you will know...there is not set rules to follow just follow your heart and not the one in your pants, but it sounds like you are not like that so good luck...

Answer 10

some relationship...