I was really good friends with this girl, and then I started to like her as more than a friend. So I asked her out, but turned me down. As good friends, she decided that we should talk about it, and bring our feelings out in the open. So I told her that I liked her as more than a friend. She said that she really likes me, but dating is just something that she doesn't do. She told me that she's never dated anyone, or felt that way about anyone. (by the way, I'm 20, and she's 19). Then we continued talking for more than 3 hours and there was some definite chemistry going on. We have also flirted in the past by playing footsies on a handful of occasions, and she usually sits next to me at class and meetings or whatever. She said that she wants to stay friends, but the flirting has dramatically decreased. What should I do, keep flirting or back off? (or somewhere in between) Is she trying to surpress her feelings or something?
2006-10-18 15:46:46 · 5 answers · asked by TParr12321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep being her friend although if you start to see a new girl and go out it will bring out your friends feelings and she will want to be with you always works every time
2006-10-18 15:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a great friend to have but just as friends maybe she isn't ready to be girlfriend boyfriend just yet Doesn't want to ruin any ill feelings
2006-10-18 23:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and be friends, in the meantime, find another love interest or whatever and keep living.
2006-10-18 22:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only flirt if she flirts with you and be mindful of your heart
2006-10-18 22:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on hun.
2006-10-19 00:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by killinshel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋