hey if your reading this i really need to talk to you cuz my BFFs mom abuses her.shes been doing so for about7 years now and her momtold her that if she ever called the cops on her she will get her befor the get me please i know that theres really nothing i can do but help me do sumtin about it!!! i try to tell my mom but she doesnt believe me!!!
2006-10-18 15:46:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your school counselor. The next time your friend is abused, she should go to her guidance counselor and show the bruises. They will take her into protective custody and her mom will not be able to abuse her. However, your friend need to make it clear that the abuse may continue if she is returned to her mom. Be there for your friend. Be aware that she may even defend her mother's actions because it is STILL her mom and I'm sure she loves her.
2006-10-18 15:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation with a friend of mine. Her mom told her the same thing.
So what I did was I told the school counselor and the principal and they dealt with the situation. They were able to contact the appropriate people to handle the situation.
Within a week my friend and her baby brothers were removed from the home. Her dad was in the military and not home during the day. The only time my friend's mom was abusive was when her dad was not at home
My friend's mom was charged with 3 counts of child abuse. If you explain this to the principal or counselor or even call an abuse hotline someone other than your mom will listen.
2006-10-18 19:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to your school counselor or a teacher that you can trust! Your friends mom needs to go to jail! What is wrong with your mother, she should at least check into this! Get your friend help and get her out of that house! Good Luck!
2006-10-18 15:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by KO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go and call animal control even if the mom says no (guess she has a cold heart). Add: Guess SOMEONE(my thumbs down) saw its right that the mom would tell the kids to not call on as something as horrible as this.... .
2016-05-22 01:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Really. It worked with my GF's dad. He threatened to pull a gun on me if i ever came back. HE DID. I had the gun in about 4 seconds. Ejected the magazine and emptied the extra bullet. it was ******. I couldn't believe it. I told him if he ever tried that again i would shoot him. My gf was pissed at me for saying that but now she barley ever talks to her dad because of that.
Just sit down and have a talk. It's totally worth it. And find out some neat tricks like i did with the gun reverse. It was called the gun cross flip. well saved my life. :) . TALK TO HER. IF NESSECARY THREATEN HER.
2006-10-18 15:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by dadudesam2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have my son cause of what his mom was doing to him. If you have seen this and know this is true go with her and help her tell some one... be a friend cause if she stays she may get hurt real bad or run away and then who knows what will happen
2006-10-18 16:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by russellvero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to someone at school, like a teacher or someone, they should be able to guide you and tell you what the right thing to do would be.
2006-10-18 15:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by 4everNever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guidance counselor at your school. If you don't have one, talk to the cops and teachers. If there's a cop at your school, talk to him/her. You need a trusted adult. I hope I help.
2006-10-18 15:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kai Baz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
her friend needs to probably confide in a trusted adult. does she have injuries as a result of this abuse. she should start taking pictures. my son did that after him and his dad got into it one time and he actually called the cops on his father. it never happened again. ill pray for your friend.
2006-10-18 16:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talking physical abuse ? if she doesnt want to call the cops and nither do you, then maybe you should talk to a counselor at school.
2006-10-18 15:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by locowherto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋