Well, his mom is super religious. and very ove rprotective of him. she wont even allow us to hang out by our selves. How am I suppose to show her that im not some whore who wants to make out, and actually wants to hang out. Or even trust me or him. And how can i get her to stop doing that weird. demon casting thing she does to me?
2006-10-18 15:42:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
spend time iwth her alone get to know her.. go to church and sit with her not her son.. show you have a true interest in winning her approval and sending tim e with her and other family - do not be self centered or centered around your bf .. (although you may not care about her approval and you will still be with her son regardless) Mom in laws like to see a girl trying to be a good girl and trying to recieve approval and caring for more than just the man as they look at you as may be a potential new familiy member. It may just work out that you and her become friends maybe even family with her backing you up 100%.
Be the family member you would want added to your family
2006-10-18 16:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by hotredhead2655 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend who's mother is so out in left field, then you have a real problem. There comes a time when everyone has to break away from the apron strings and if your boyfriend doesn't ...you'd better find greener pastures. Remember...you are who you associate with. You either become more like his mother or you run...
2006-10-18 22:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by redcoat7121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try showing her that you agree with her, for the meantime. im sure as time goes by, she'll realize that you and your bf are trust-worthy kind of young people. also, i think it would help if you show her that you are also religious, that is, if you indeed are truly religious, if not then dont. it would only make matters worse, you pretending that you're also religious. spend time with her, dont disagree with her. give her little gifts which are not too expensive but would make her feel important to you. Good luck!!!
2006-10-18 22:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by honey_ugly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my late mother's experience with a mother-in-law of that kind, I have to tell you to move at least 3,000 miles away if and when you get married. You'll go through hell and wind up in a divorce (or worse) if you don't. That's what happened to her because she and my father DIDN'T move away.
Buzz
2006-10-18 22:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by In Honor of Moja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try looking into her religion...so next time you two talk she can see that your not a devil. Also tell her that your parents are the same way (even if they are not..hahahaha) Just smile and be polite..u will eventually get on her good side!
2006-10-18 22:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by calibeauty3698 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be respectful of her wishes and she will loosen up eventually. Got to remember that's her little boy....
2006-10-18 22:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really liked him you could look beyond his mom if you can just be nice and try to make her like you
2006-10-18 22:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself, him and most of all HER. Remember, if you and he hook up, she'll be a part of your life, take it or leave it.
good luck!
2006-10-18 22:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Silly Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be a good actor
2006-10-18 22:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shotgun and holywater
2006-10-18 22:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by electro- hamburger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋