How many think that premarital sex is wrong or should be looked down upon more?

Question

I think that it should be supremly looked down upon. God gave us reproductive organs, not for pleasure, but, to make repopultaing the earth enjoyable, or easier.

WOW. What a response. Such different opinions across the board. For those want to know yes, I am a virgin, yes, I am going to wait until marrige to give myself to another, and my boyfriend feels the same way. we have been together 2 yrs. I'm 18, he's 19, and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Yes, I am in loe with him and plan on spending the rest of my life w/ him.

Answer 1

i dont quite know how its viewed in general.
but im still a virgin, and im 27.
and tiem and time again i've been called a loser because of it.
the majority of people have sex in their teens.
and i have not. so....its sad. but u and me may be the only 2 people on earth who are virgins. i dont know what your age is, but soon some guy will change your mind, then next thing u know, im the ony loser left. sigh....if only more people thought like you. but alas, none exist. i hate myself.
anyways....gimme 10 points ok? please...please? thanks,.

Answer 2

That is evading responsibility, and is not the best solution.

Force/control breeds resistence(too much force breeds hatred and/or a variety of mental problems) Understanding breeds compassion and peace.

First of all, sex is not something that is easily expressed with parent and child. If the child does not have a reliable mentor, they risk making a mistake. So it is critical to be completely open about sex, nothing and I mean nothing should be hidden from them. That is the best way for the child to trust the parent.

Fact is sex is not a dirty thing, and it should be thoroughly taught by the age of 10. It should also be something that is completely open in schools and other places.

The children are not taught how to think about sex, so they have no direction. They don't know how to choose a mate or very little to do with relationships. Maybe the parents don't either, so then when does the cycle end?

So does is not make sense that instead of looking down on something or being judged, we focus on improving the essencial difficulties in your life? After all, the child learns from the parents, and if the parents contradict themselves not matter what the excuse it can become rather confusing to the children.

Once we can master our own life, we can effectively plant the seeds of the next generation. Once that is done, than we can expect prosperous and a wonderfull age for our children. This is the best solution to eliminating the premarital sex problem.

*Here is the most important thing to remember of my post.
Those who fails to understand and control their enviroment, are doomed to be controlled by their enviroment.

I know this question was not about child and parent, but isn't that where the cycle starts?

Answer 3

Society seems to be past the point where people think its wrong, but the most important thing with premarital sex is that you need to be responsible and realize that whenever you have sex with someone, they could end up being your baby's daddy.

When you get married before you have sex, it makes things less complicated because you supposedly already love each other and have committed to share your lives together. This makes everything easier on you and the kids. The kids get the benefit of having two parents and YOU get the benefit of having someone there to help you raise your children.

I know, it's long winded, BUT the moral of the story is: Make sure you protect yourself and take sex seriously and try to make sure that anyone you have premarital sex with could make a good "baby's daddy."

Answer 4

If God didn't want us to be happy, he would NOT have given women a clitoris, which is proven to have no other use other than pleasure for a woman. What each person does with their own life is completely up to them and should NOT be judged by other people. You are extremely entitled to your own opinion, but you have no room to judge those who enjoy being intimate with the ones they love.

Answer 5

i think whatever a person wants that is their decision, however i woudl never marry a girl i haven't slept with, as for the reproduction thing..even once married and waited, you would not have sex unless you were going to have AND you cannot argue once you are married it is different because if is for reproduction before it should remain that way

Answer 6

Of course not. Marriage is a cultural thing, not everybody wants it.

If your version of God didn't want people to have sex for pleasure, then why did he make it feel so good? Seems kinda silly to me for you to assume that God doesn't want us to feel good. And I don't know if you've noticed this, but the Earth has been populated for quite sometime now. Shouldn't God have taken away orgasms if repopulation was his reason for giving them?

Answer 7

I Agree 100%

Answer 8

Think about it if you stay a virgin until you get married you wont know good sex so your thinking you partner isbest or the biggest or wettest but 1 day when you have an affair you find out your partner was actually some trash in bed and that makes you go out to find a good sex life which ***** up your marriage

Answer 9

You know what, thats ubsurd. When were you born, the 40's or earlier? Life has changed and women arent bound to those ball and chains. Women can enjoy sexual activity without the burdon of getting pregnant and diseases. And God Knows we need the relief, we have enough pressuse on us. As far as im concerned taste the rainbow!!!!!! Enjoy life and embrace it. Just use protection.

Answer 10

Have you ever made love? Have you ever joined yourself physically and emotionally with the one you love? It is not just sex. It truly is a beautiful thing, even if it happens outside of wedlock.