Ok i was mad at my bf because he wouldn’t stay and eat lunch with me at work after his shift was over at work. He was leaving around 2pm and I was tacking my lunch break at that time so I ask him to stay with me for like 30min, however he said that he didn’t fell like staying so I got mad and I walked away form him, I know I over reacted, but if u think about it, I just want my man to stay with me while I eat my lunch anyway he said what is the big dill and I said all I want u to do was eat lunch with me u are just going to go home and sleep, so that happened Tuesday and today is Wednesday he didn’t call me what do u think I should do??? Should I call him and say what?? We always do this I ask him he has to fas about it. What should I do I miss him, but I don’t want to be the one that end up apologizing all the time.
2006-10-18 15:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi,
with the your situation, im afraid if you miss him and if you want things fixed, it will take you to apologise as you were the one that got mad.
i guess you gotta control your reaction when he doesnt give you what you want. i know you want him to stay but there are better ways of letting him know then getting angry. if you are aware that you over reacted, then hes probably aware too.
i believe in his mind, he did nothing wrong.
also its really stupid to fight over small things like this if you care about each other. maybe your both stubborn and dont wanna cave in, but i suggust you swallow your pride this time and make up.
just make up, and make sure it doesnt pop up again :)
trsut me, this happens to all of us.
2006-10-18 15:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the one to apologize. Your bf just wanted to go home to sleep - why is that selfish? He finished work and wanted to take a nap. Aside from being your boyfriend, he is also a human being - and you are not the boss of him. You should be able to respect that he wanted to go home to bed. I'm sorry but you are wrong in this one and should apologize. Even if you were asking for 30 mins of his time, he wanted to go to bed. You shouldn't feel insulted because he just wanted to go home. Its not like he wanted to go to a bar or go hang out with friends or go galavanting. Really - if couples fight, they should fight for a reason. If you would have respected his wishes - this would all have been avoided and all that time would not have been wasted. You should apologize - but is you really think you're right - don't bother...but you need to understand that relationship is 50/50. Just because you don't what you want at that exact moment does not mean the other person doesn't care. let this be a tiny little lesson to avoid a bigger one.....
2006-10-18 22:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by jovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason why he doesn't want to stay with you. You have to stay later and work..i think he is running off to find another girl and the faster he leaves the longer he can be with the other girl. Just an idea might want to check up on it. Don't apoligize if you want to see him go ahead you don't always need to apoligize just to see him maybe he will give him time with that.
2006-10-18 22:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by kooimanlora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should because that was nothing to be mad about. When you work with your boyf that not a good thing away your bound to end up hating each other so just watch it
2006-10-18 22:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know u should ask him if he has another best friend or somethin. maybe he is just to tierd to stay. I think u should apologize if u miss him cuz u r the one who over reacted. Hope i helped!!!!!!
2006-10-18 22:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, you're just pissed off. We all have the right to our feelings, but how we treat and talk to one another is very important. When the two of you talk, talk to him like you want to be talked to, and let him know how you feel. We guys are kind of dense, and we need patience until we grasp the concept of communication.
2006-10-18 22:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop leaning on the guy and develop some other work relationships. It isn't reasonable to expect anyone in a relationship to fulfill all your needs.
2006-10-18 22:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but your key word was that he was just getting off of work to and he wanted to leave and i probably would have done the same thing who wants to hang around your job when you are off think about it good luck
2006-10-18 22:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you and there is no reason to apologise
i suggest you have a good talk with him and tell how you feel
if he does not want to be with you why is he your boyfriend??
2006-10-18 22:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
next time he wants to have sex say "I dont feel like it" and leave nd stuff and do whatever he did
2006-10-18 22:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋