How should I feel?

Question

Ok, I called my ex yesterday and told him i wanted him back. I'm the one that called it off. It's been a month and 2 a 1/2 since we broke up. I talked to him a long, long while after we split. After hearing his voice my feelings came back. We never foght. ANYWAY, WHAT I WANNA SAY IS IT SOUNDED LIKE HE MIGHT NOT TAKE ME. HE SAID HE WAS BUSY, THAN AND TIME COMING ON. WE DIDN'T TALK STRAIGHT THROUGH IT CAUSA WHAT HE WAS DOING. I THINK I CAN BELIEVE HE WAS BUSY CAUSE HE'S IN A COLLEGE 3 1/2 SOUTH. I WANT HIM BACK, BUT I'M THE ONE THAT BROKE IT OFF! WE DATED HAPPY FOR 2 YRS. I'M I AN AS-S FOR WANTING HIM BACK? HE WASN'T KEEPIN INTOUCH WITH ME. HOW SHOULD I FEEL NOW?

Answer 1

first off why did you brake it off? was he not keeping in contact? well you did mention that...what i think has happened here is you felt as though he wasnt there for you....so you broke it off, than you wondered if you made a mistake...so you gave him a call just to see what his reaction would be like....he didnt sound too interested...so now you feel kind of funny you know what i mean those tingles in your stomach (i hate that feeling) anyways after you broke it off with him....you probably shoudnt have called him. the reason i say this is b/c no where did you mention him calling to get back with you....so that should've told you something right there....when someone really wants to be with you they will go that extra mile to not lose you....he didnt do that...so he may have already been seeing somebody all along...you said he wasnt keeping in touch with you....and thats just one of the signs we see when we are about to lose someone we love...i think you may have felt you were losing him...and you wanted to be the one to call it quits first...however take it as a lesson learnt and go on with your life...there are others out there who will appreciate you good luck!

Answer 2

It sounds like he's not as interested in re-sparking the relationship as you are. You know what they say, don't know what you've got till it's gone. I think you just learned that the hard way.

You sound like you're offended he's not coming back because YOU broke it off. Do you think because YOU broke it off, HE should just be waiting around for YOU to want him back? That's a pretty self absorbed outlook don't you think?

Answer 3

well, he's at college away from home and since u broke up with him, he probably has moved on. u could try to meet up with him and catch up on things to see if u really want to try and pursue the relationship, but don't expect him to want to do the same. it's hard, but life is like that sometimes. if it doesn't work out, there are always other fish in the sea, as the saying goes.

Answer 4

Well, that's what happens. You just have to give him time. It's nothing wrong that you want him back, but it's up to him. You presented that you wanted to get back together so he knows. He might or might not take you back. He has to check his feelings and see what's up. Just let him soak up what he wants. There is no way you should feel, you are gonna feel what you already feel. Hopefully what you want happens, but don't expect it, just expect to be friends at this point. Good Luck.

Answer 5

wow- r u in college? your grammer is lame- and so is your question. What do u mean how should i feel? U should feel like a dumb*a*ss. Forget about guys for awhile and focus on school.