Hmm... well as it is I've liked this girl for more than 2.5 years and we've gone out twice and just haven't been able to make things work... And although we've both had our fair share of fights and arguments...along with her two best friends hating my guts. But now being in University we've grown closer, but still somethings off... even though we spend most of our time together in classes and on our breaks .. I somehow get the feeling that she doesn't want much to do with me on the relationship side of things... and as much as that breaks my heart how can I somehow ask her or confront her about whats going on between the two of us...?
P.S. I honestly love her with all my heart, and if her being happy means that I'm not in her life then I'll do it, because in the end she's the one with the smile on her face and that 's all that matters...
2006-10-18 15:07:02 · 7 answers · asked by Magnitudex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you give me advice on what to do, or whether or not to talk to her and if so...then what should i say, where should I say it and most importantly how?
2006-10-18 15:19:50 · update #1
If she knows how you feel about her, then back off for a while. It will be good for your sanity to have some space, and if she's interested, she can let you know. Put the ball in her court and leave it. Friendship wouldn't be fair to either of you.
2006-10-21 16:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't love you, and she probably never had anything for you other than friendship, and I think that you should tell yourself that and let her just be your friend, and that way you will keep a smile on her face and be the true friend that you should be. don't think about yourself that much, if you love her, you will have to be there for you as a friend and if one day she wants more and you still feel the same way about her, she will appreciate the fact that you were there as her friend.
2006-10-18 22:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your question, don't ask us, ask the person who would know for sure............her! By the way, you don't need a confrontation, a nice rational conversation will do nicely. Go for lunch or an innocent coffee etc. Be creative and patient, your chance will come.
2006-10-18 22:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is was sweet. i wish my bf would be like that. lol any way give her her space and let her cool off. maybe she just doesn't think of u like a bf and more just a very special friend. go out wit other girls just to show her that she not the only girl in ur life. make her jealous. thats what i did now my x-bf is tryin to make me jealous but it ain't workin i love my boo to much to give him up. lol good luck
2006-10-18 22:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tab 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you are a very sincere person. i think that perhaps she is taking it slow or perhaps waiting for you to talk with her further regarding where the relationship is going...i think you should ask her out one night like going out on friday or saturday...just ask her really casually. you should find out asap since you both sound like you really are not aware of what each other are thinking. good luck and i hope it works out for you two!
2006-10-18 22:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to understand that she wnat JUST to be friends. It's most likely for the better!
2006-10-18 22:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Raine Foster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she just prefer you as a friend and not anything further.
2006-10-18 22:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋