I live in a extended family but their is my stepfamily and for some reason or the other they always have some problem with me so i tried to stay out of their way and they have a problem with that, i watch my favourites show or read a book or something that's a problem too. So i tried telling them how i feel and i apologise for any offence and it's the same thing. they gossip and spread rumors about me, i'm so sick and fed up, what should i do?
2006-10-18 15:06:05 · 9 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are old enough, I would consider moving out. Even living wiuth a relative would be better.
2006-10-18 15:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so sweet!!! Bless your heart to try to talk to them and apologize for anything you have (or not have) done.
You need to talk to your biological parent. If they tell you that they don't see it, then tell your parent that the fact they don't see it is the problem and it's making you very sad. Ask your parent to just sit back and listen to the things that are being said around the house when the step-family thinks no one is listening. Tell them you will try to voice record some of the things they say to you and they way they treat you. You can use this to show your parent that you really ARE having a problem and you need their help and support.
Good luck, honey. It's rough and I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time right now. Things will start looking up soon enough.
2006-10-18 15:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've grown up with two annoying sisters and if I were you I would find silent ways to get back because that's what they get for messing with you. But what do I know I'm a Leo at heart so it's harder to take the high road.Figure out who the ring leader is and talk to them and if that doesn't fix I would try getting out of the house as much as possible they can't really spread anything if your not there for them to catch you in the act of and who cares what they think?? When you move and and become rich and they all still live with your parents then who will be laughing then?? Plus they can probably smell your fear like vampires. So they know it's bugging you and they punce on it just like my sisters do which I don't stand for as much as I used to.
2006-10-18 15:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the step-family is the problem, then go back to your real family. Just leave them alone, that way they can pick on someone else. You should never have to stay out of peoples way. And only apoligize to a person if you have really done something wrong. Some families love DRAMA and maybe that is them...Good luck.
2006-10-19 07:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always easy to become accepted in a blended family. Take the moral high road. Try not to do anything that they might think as "wrong", and stand up for yourself when they gossip or tell lies about you.
When you turn 18 you always have the option of moving out.
2006-10-18 15:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to them that you're tired of them constantly acting like children and highschool teenagers. Tell them that you've been minding your business and doing things to not be in their way. Don't ask for respect, demand it. Tell them they have no reason to treat you the way they do, you're tired of the gossip and disrespect, and that if it doesn't stop you will call the hotline for neglected children in families with parents who aren't supportive.
I've give you that number if need be.
2006-10-18 15:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough and you can manage to live by your own self it's time to move out ,if not just ignore them .maybe their doing these to annoy you.be yourself and be nice to everybody but you don't have to apologize every now and then.
2006-10-18 15:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from that situation
2006-10-18 15:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like every one is trying to ruin your life
2006-10-18 15:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋