I am a 14 year-old boy. I am what some would call a "Goth" but I really do not think of myself as that. I dress in all black with band t-shirts, black nail polish, and sometimes eyeliner. I love the way I dress cause it sorta fits in with the rave/industrial/techno/metal/punk/emo music I listen to. Anyways to get to the point. Everyone sorta likes me just I really have nothing to say. I never can think of anything to talk about with anybody except about 2 people. And when I do talk it is never anything funny or interesting. I guess I am sorta posting this because I realized today I really only have 2 close friends and one I only get to talk to every 2 weeks and I have only seen her once in the year I've known her. All my other friends have seemed to abandoned me after I went to the hospital (because of my big depression). I just want to be able to think of more interesting things to say. Can anybody help me? I really would appriciate it!
2006-10-18 15:04:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Start keeping a daily journal...things you encountered,or want to, how your day went, what you were thinking
ie; This week, i'm going to say "hi" to 5 more people a day...this week i'm gonna ask Sarah what her favorite movie is? what her favorite song is? and learn something about that kid that nobody seems to talk to by talking to him, her. Then write down what you got out of it, etc... Just keep building on yourself by reaching out & learning about others! You will probably be amazed that you are NOT alone. ;-)
2006-10-18 15:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have anything to say to anyone either! I just hang out with the people I can talk to, and we find other people we can talk to. I am a 13 year old girl who had no friends in 5 6 or 7th grades. 8th grade is where all of my friends seem to be coming from!
2006-10-18 15:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gracie Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like using small talk to light a conversation. You will be surprised the different ways you can lead a conversation with small talk.
2006-10-18 15:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋