my g/f is always snooping through my stuff. she goes in my phone and looks at all the messages and contacts,she looks on my myspace and reads all my messages,and she even snoops through my wallet!!! what do u think???
2006-10-18 14:59:47 · 17 answers · asked by fac3d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u need to move on she's mad insecure and it will only get worse and make u miserable
2006-10-18 15:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by geom1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your girl has some major trust issues. If you haven't tried talking to her about it, then I think it's high time that you do. Ask her why she doesn't trust you and let her know how much her snooping bothers you...not so much the snooping, but rather the fact that she doesn't seem to trust you.
Best wishes! :-)
2006-10-18 15:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a sign of insecurity and she needs to stop. the only reason she has a right to do that, is if you have been unfaithful and she wants to make sure that you arent. dont let her, it is your privacy and you should have some. a relationship is supposed to be open, but not open enough for her to go through your stuff. either she needs to stop, or you show her how it feels. do it back to her and she will most likely say something and that is when you say, how do you think i feel, you are invading my privacy.
2006-10-18 15:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by JennyJen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not trust you. think if you have given her any cause not to trust you. If not, then just talk to her and let her know where ur relationship stands. If she is your only girl then let her know. If you are creeping on the low behind her back then I understand her actions. Just be up front and tell her how it is. If this continues then break it up because trust is crucial in a relationship.
2006-10-18 15:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u given her reason to not trust you? in either case i think alot of people snoop just to see if their partner is on the up and up however, how does she have your password to access all this stuff????
talk to her but again, have u given her reasons?
2006-10-18 15:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy a condom, throw away the condom and put the condom wrapper in your wallet, let her find it.. Then it will be resovled in a huge argument or she will dump and thus the problem will no longer exist.
2006-10-18 15:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you gave her a good reason not to trust you, or she's a bag lady (carrying baggage from a previous relationship). Neither one is healthy...hope you guys work it out
2006-10-18 15:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she doesn't have enough trust in you, so I would dump her and move on. On the other hand, do you have something to hide??
2006-10-18 15:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not funny. It shows a person who is suspicious, untrusting, and controlling. Big red flags. Can't you see them?
2006-10-18 15:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend thinks that you are possibly are/going to cheat on her.
Confront her about this, ask ehr why she is doing this, and ask her to stop. Work it out with her, and show her that you wouldn't cheat on her, ever.
2006-10-18 15:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by KGB_Vampiric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋