Let's say a guy is 'talking' to a few different girls. Do you think it is true that he will turn to the one he knows will take care of him when he is sick?
Because the guy I like says if anything is going to happen, it will happen slowly, which is fine. And I know he has other girls he is talking to - however, he has felt bad for the past two days and has been emailing & calling a LOT more than usual. My girls say it's because he knows I will 'baby' him.
Do you think it's true? because he says we are just friends, but he knows I like him.
2006-10-18 14:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, your quite right on that one. Most guys make the worst patients when they are sick. They are total babies and like to be almost spoon fed. He will gravitate towards you if he is sick because you have a very nurturing nature. That's great. Most men love to be pampered.
2006-10-18 14:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a caring heart. Men are big babies when they are sick and they're going where they can get the most pampering. This guy knows he can get it from you. Now, while he's taking things slowly and talking to other girls, I hope he acts on the the goodness he sees in your heart and speed things up and you become more than just friends.
2006-10-18 22:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he feels he can use you as a doormat because you are hooked on him eventhough he isn't interested in more than friends. For many guys, keeping someone around that you know likes you is an ego-boost. Women they don't want that like them are also kind of like security blankets, if a girl they really like rejects them, a little time with someone who DOES like them helps them feel better. This may sound uncool or brutal, but you won't get a more honest answer.
Aloha
2006-10-18 21:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Genji_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
It doesn't hurt to take care of him and to show him that you actually care but don't go to extremes. He goes after other girls because probably he can't find what he wants in a girl. In other words, he is not satisfied. If he finds that satisfaction, I can assure you that, if he is a normal person psychologically, he will not go anywhere else.
Good luck
2006-10-18 21:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by sia68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he thinks that since you really care about him you are going to treat him how he would really like to be treated while being sick so..............
2006-10-18 21:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like he is playing all of you.
2006-10-18 21:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋