we have a long distant relationship (5hr away) and this is not normal behavior for him. so I'm not sure what the deal is. when i call him he does not answer the phone. he called one day but he know i was at work around that time. what should i do? just let it go or find out what the deal is?
2006-10-18 14:13:56 · 17 answers · asked by downsouthchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something probably came up, try calling one more time....
2006-10-18 14:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I can tell you that 9 out of 10 times long distance relationships don't work. It you both wanted t o make this work, you would find a way to be with each other- regardless of the situation. Otherwise, I'm afraid your doomed sooner or later...
2006-10-18 21:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ya man!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out about it. I am just like you. When my boyfriend dosen't call, I dream up all of the reasons why he is cheating on me, and why is he doing this? what did i do wrong?? But don't get like that. TRUST ME! He is probably busy, and he was so busy, he forgets to call. Don't assume just because you don't know what is happening right now.
I am SURE he will come around soon. That's what happens with every boyfriend i ever had and friends boyfriends and stuff.
2006-10-18 21:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy Cow, 5 hours is a long way away. Maybe you should leave him a message, If he doesn't call or contact you by the end of the week, i smell a rat
2006-10-18 21:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is time to end the long distance relationship with this guy. obviously he's met some else and it's too coward to tell. by not picking up the phone when you call him.
don't call him anymore. eventually he'll call you, then you can ask him not to call you any more. believe me is the best thing you can do, you deserve better than that!
2006-10-18 21:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont panic. cuz im n a long distance relationship and occasionally i tend to panic over things i dont need to panic over. if i were u i wuld leave a message saying that u feel like somthing is up and need to talk bout watever it is or ur just gona let him do watever he wants cuz if he doesnt want to talk to u then fine. but b nice bout it. i wuld let him go until i found out wat the deal is.
2006-10-18 21:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ken, sounds like your boyfriend found another boyfriend on the side. Go check it out, go to his place and have it out with him, if he wont answer the phone, then do the drastic and take a bus, plane, car whatever to his place a catch him out.
2006-10-18 21:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date two people that way if he don't call you got someone else. 5hrs away come-on seriously he gots someone else. He is a guy he's cheating on you. If Hale Berry got cheated on your going to get cheated on trust me!
2006-10-18 21:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did he leave a message when he called? How old is he, and how old are you? I would continue to try and contact him, not accusingly, and appear to be concerned. Don't think the worst, your imagination will run wild.
2006-10-18 21:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out what is going on....you probably are scared to call because you fear the worst, but if you wait around you're just wasting time. call him and find out what's up.
2006-10-18 21:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋