OKAY right now im in a relationship with a guy i really like we've been together 4 about 6 months. now he's locked up. well i've started hearing a lot of stuff about him how he was out doing his own thing while we were together(b4 he got locked up) but the only person that would tell me this is one of my best friends i don't know what to do she's the only one telling me these things he ''says'' they ain't true but what do you expect hes locked up . but i really want to believe him but she's my friend what should i do leave him or keep him?...and should i not think the only reason she knows about what he did is becuase of well.. i think you know. HELP ME PLEASE !!
2006-10-18 13:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by keepin'itReal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off, being locked up is a bad enough sign. Who freaking CARES if hes cheating, hes in jail!!! Dump him.
2006-10-18 13:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been together that long and to be hearing all this stuff so early on you need really asses how your commitment was with him before he got locked up. And it also depends on how long he is going to be locked up for...he may not be worth your time waiting around. I stayed around for a cheating man while he was locked up then I met somone ...who turned out to be the love of my life..so leaving the guy in jail....one of the best decisions I've ever made.
2006-10-18 13:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you friend how she knows this and did she go to bed with him. Next , if a man runs around on you once he will do it again. He won't tell you the truth because he wants his cake and eat it too. You said that he is locked up now, dump the guy!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 13:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start off you have not been with him very long. you need to ask yourself if you want to stay with him. If you feel you can not trust him then it is better to part ways. No relationship can be built if there is no TRUST. As for your friend, buck up and ask her how she knows, and tell her to be honest with you. No one like being lied too. Just tell them like I do "I rather be hurt with the truth, than hurt with a lie."
2006-10-18 14:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by momof4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a cheater you must take him away from your life..you didnt expect to be with a boy like him..
If you think your Friend is really a friend you must believe her...it all depends in you and also in your feelings.
2006-10-18 13:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Estrellita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me that you're better off without this guy. First, he might have cheated on you. Second, he committed a crime that landed him in jail. You deserve better.
2006-10-18 13:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trees don't move if the wind doesn't blow. but it still boils down to how much trust you have in him.
2006-10-18 13:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋