Is being a parent scary?

Question

I'm not saying this because I'm planning to have kids anytime soon, I'm just thinking about it. I mean there are so many things about being a parent that scare me so much. I like teen depression/pregnancy, self mutilation, rebellion, them catching AIDs, being a bad parent and the list goes on an on...Were you scared when you first came a parent, are you still scared?

I didn't mean to say "I like, Just 'like' sorry guys!"

Answer 1

I think it's a very scary thing... I haven't gone thru it either, but with today kids seem so much different than when I was a kid... Heck, there are states that just outlawed tag...how the heck are you supposed to raise a child if they can't learn that they can get hurt, don't always come in first and have to live without being the most popular... how I wish for the good old days of 1980 - 1995 :)

Answer 2

Being a parent isn't as scary as you think. Unless you make it scary. But being a parent is more of a gift that god gave you. You'll love your baby/kids more than ever. The only hard part about being a parent is when they are babies and they want to be awake all night. other then that. then it's ok. Probably whe they grow up to teens or pre-teens then you as a parent have to becareful about them getting into activities you're not aware of. But your job as a parent is to keep updating on what thay are doing and to encouage them to stay in school, go to college, get a job, etc.

I'm a parent of a two month old baby girl. I was scared at first because I wasn't sure on how to take care of a baby. Now I know everything and when I see she's grwoing I'll know day by day what she'll need right away. Being a parent isn't bad and scary at all. As I said, It's a gift and I'm proud be being the parent of my baby girl Neveah Eve Espinoza.

Answer 3

Being a parent is scary from the day the baby is born. You realize that you're no longer responsible for just yourself but you're now responsible for another human being.
A good parent knows that no matter how hard they discipline their children and how much they're there for them and help them, a child will always rebel in some way. Us parents know that although we'll stick by our children there will be time when they think they won't need us and they'll go out on their own and make bad decisions. Every person makes mistakes, so we know our children will do so. But, teaching your child manners and responsibility from a young age should give you the trust inside that can make you realize that you can and will be able to let your child go places and do things but to have trust in them. Some parents kid will catch AIDS, some parents kid will be depressed, some parents kid will rebel, some parents kid will have a disorder. A parent cannot stop them if this is hidden but can only help them through it when they find out. A parents job is to help their child regardless... stick by the child and love them despite the mistakes they'll make.

Answer 4

Completley scared out of my mind. I had never had any use for small children ( I had neices and nephews but no interest in holding them or playing with them till they were old enough to really do things, play games, watch tv ) But once my wife got pregnant and I saw the baby moving in her belly, I became even more frightened. Upon his arrival I suddenly became " Superdad"( cue heroic music lol) and pretty much took over the care of my newborn son. He and I now have a bond that I doubt could be matched by anything. We then proceeded to have 2 more sons and I have to tell you there is no more gratifying job in the universe than being a father. And I thought I would be no good at it. Deededeeeeeeeeeeee

Answer 5

I've got five kids and it is scary. I'm scared of the possibility that they'll turn out to be bad teens and even badder adults. I'm scared that they'll get into drugs and become teenage parents or join gangs or even be criminals. No matter what it is scary being a parent because we can't see the future. So we don't know how our kids will turn out despite all the good we do for them.

Answer 6

Yeah, at first I was scared, I mean there was a miniature person growing in my belly!!! But when that bundle of joy comes into the world, you are just overwhelmed with love for this new perfect little person. And trust me, as soon as you are pregnant, your motherly instincts will kick in. Everything will work out just fine. Don't be afraid, whether you are going to have kids now or later.

Answer 7

I've been a father to a wonderful little boy for just over a year now, and I've been scared in one way or another that entire time. There are so many things to be concerned about! I have to say, though, it's been the most incredible experience so far in my life, and I only wish I would have done it sooner.

Answer 8

yesssss.. i was scared then and now 11 years later. there are no books to teach you how to be a good parent. all they do is give you parenting techniques and then ( in the fine print) turn around and say nothing works all the time. parenting is like living you have to take what life dishes and deal, than hope and pray you did your dam best...

Answer 9

It's completely frightening! But, you learn to deal with it, protect your children, and always pray a lot! As hard as it is to be a parent, it is infinitely rewarding.

Answer 10

well no if your kids are nice but...

if your kids are bad its a nightmare

it depends on what the parent does around the child