I like my boyfriend and everything but not as my boyfriend . I like him as a friend and not as my boyfriend anymore. It was cool and romantic at first , but now its not ther any more the magic went away and I cant bring myself to tell him im afraid that I will hurt him realy bad and he will hate me. Could some one please help me.
2006-10-18 13:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he still likes you he's probably going to be hurt and mad. but you sound young and i would assume that if you are he is too. you will both get over it, so move on. don't be flowery in your break up. don't apologize. just be straight with him. "you and i just aren't clicking for me anymore. i want to move on and eventually see what else is out there and you should do the same"
2006-10-18 13:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Donna L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his point of view is on the relationship, if he feel like a friend to you, you should be able to communicate. After getting his view tell him what your view is and see if you agree. A lot of relationships need a friendship it's what make being together fun. I have know my boyfriend, baby daddy, since the 8th grade we 21 now and we still have fun like 8th graders lol.
2006-10-18 13:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by viper_chick2ridewit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is not to much you can do here dear. You need to be brave and just tell him how you feel. You might feel bad for awhile, but that is life. Love is like that ya know. It can be so beautiful and yet so painful. Would you rather things continue as they are, and be living a lie? Thats not fair to you or him. Be strong, you will be alright.
2006-10-18 13:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to be his friend, then you should tell him that. It will probably hurt him, but will be better for both of you. There isn't any fun in staying in a relationship if you dont want it. It will all be okay, just explain to him that he means a lot to you, but only as a friend.
2006-10-18 13:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by jacks my boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih i think you need to tell him what you feel because the longer you stays together the harder he'll fall in love with you..so you better tell him now..yes it will hurt him and might hate you but at least you didn't keep him hoping on something that's not real..it will hurt him more and hate you more and he would thik that you fooled him and played with his feelings..and besides, you're giving hi the time to move on and the chance to find a new love..
2006-10-18 13:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun just bite the bullet my last relationship was just like that and when i finally told he was really upset but not because of how i felt but that i left it so long before telling him he said i was cheating on him emotionally and it was true no other way of putting it.
2006-10-18 13:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to tell him in person. If you can't do that, then talk to him on the phone and explain what has happened. The longer you put it off, the worse it will become for both of you. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-18 13:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel but do it very carefully and in stages like don't lay it on him all at once....causes overload then he get angry
call him and talk to him the smae way even give him a kiss or hug ocassionally after you break up, unless he gets a girl freind should help, would have like my ex girlfreind to do that to me
2006-10-18 13:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by random_398 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋