OK...This is a 3 part question...I had a date with this guy Sat nite. From what I thought, the date went pretty well. We went out to dinner, to a haunted house, then back to my place for a movie. He kissed me at the end of the night. Not a make out kiss, but really sweet. The thing is, I haven't heard from him. We really seemed to connect before we went out, talking on the phone for 3 nights in a row, not one conversation less than an hour and a half, and the longest was about 3 hours. I like him, and would like to see him again. Here's my questions...
1. If he kissed me in the way that he did, am I right in thinking he was interested?
2. Is it ok for the girl to call the guy?
3. Would be ok for me to call him even though so much time has passed?
I'm pretty new to this dating stuff (and HATING the fact that I'm more nervous now than I was before the date), and am just getting back into it after ending a 3 plus year relationship. I just don't know...I like the guy but I....
2006-10-18 13:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cheyenne 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But I don't want to come on too over-eager or (worse yet) desperate. PLEASE help. And PLEASE read all the details. My friends are saying to go ahead and call him, but I'd like more ideas.
2006-10-18 13:30:24 · update #1
BTW, this isn't some high schooler's drama...I've been out of high school for over 8 years.
2006-10-18 13:31:24 · update #2
ok...geom....I have to apologize for the thumbs down. I wasn't thinking when i read the ok. I'm just in kind of a hurry. My friends have been telling me to call tonight or it'll be too late. I'll find some of your answers and make up for this one thumbs down.
2006-10-18 13:38:56 · update #3
I can't really pick a best answer, so I'm just gonna let yahoo users vote on it. Thanks to all!
2006-10-19 13:37:35 · update #4
question #1....if he kissed ur passionatly then yes I think he's interested
#2- this is 2006...her probably expect you to call..he kissed you..he probably is worried you didn't like the way he kissed you and thinks you don't like him- call him
#3- Yes it's fine to let a little time pass but not more than 5 days then it becomes weird- call him tonight or tomorrow at the latest and just say hi, you enjoyed spending time with him and hope to spend more time with him.
2006-10-18 13:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by geom1974 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heck yea call him!! I don't get why you women are so hesitant to pick up the phone when you sit on it all day with yer friends. Some advice though, it's ok to ask him out on another date(trust me, if he likes you he won't mind) but if you do and he says he has plans and does not try to set up another time. Drop it!! He doesn't like you, find someone else.
2006-10-18 20:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely no reason why you shouldn't call him. Perhaps that is what he is waiting for....this is the 20th Century...girls are allowed to call boys and ask them out...
Just call and start out by saying "I just wanted to thank you for the other night...I had a really good time"
2006-10-18 20:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 yes he sounds interested
2 yes it is ok
3 yes why not
for all 3 what have got to lose?? the worst he can say is no and then you will at least know and move on
2006-10-18 20:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok hey im here to help. 4 som reason i help people better then my self.
1st: yeah if he kissed you then you have every right to think he likes you.
2nd: Call the poor boy he might think your confused of why he kissed you or maybe he is confused of why.Maybe he hasent really noticed he likes you till then.
3rd: I think you should call him. He might need reasurence that everythings cool... you never know he might me thinking he needs to call you but is to shy. =^.^=
2006-10-18 20:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should call him and if he hasnt called u yet then he probably is busy with work.Or he is probaly just waiting for u .
2006-10-18 20:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE THE KISS DIDN'T DO IT FOR HIM . OR YOU HAD BAD BREATH . OR HE FOUND SOMEONE WHO PUT OUT ON THE FIRST DATE.
2006-10-18 20:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just call, make up some excuse and do it....
2006-10-18 20:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by mr_r_bowman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call you and if he doesn't find another guy!
2006-10-18 20:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋