I am in high school and my boyfriend and me have been going out for 6 months. I found out about a month ago that when we first started going out he felt up some other girl. I broke up with him but after only a few days I took him back because I really love him and I believe he loves me to. He seemed really sorry about what he did. For a few weeks things were fine but then people started coming up to me telling me that he flirts with this girl uncontrollably and that its not only her but almost every girl he talks to. Also, I found out from a friend that this one girl he flirts with likes him. I'm not sure what to do, I really feel like I cant trust him at all anymore but I love him to death and I mean, all he did before was feel her up and now its just flirting. It could be much worse right? So should I break up with him or try to make it work?
2006-10-18 13:23:34 · 14 answers · asked by alicia s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know everyone thinks you cant find true love in high school and that there is no way i actually love this guy but the truth is, i want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is the perfect guy for me and i really believe we belong together. And he relaly claims to love me just as much and texts me every hour to tell me he loves and misses me. Ok, i know this all sounds juvinial but please forget my age and concentrate on the other things i have said. Do you really think i should just dump him after all we have gone through when he hasnt really done any thing else wrong?
2006-10-18 13:34:57 · update #1
Ok this may sound weird stating that I'm a guy but i thought i could give u a prospective from me beside i like helping other ppl so yea ~ There are different types of flirting with guys some of us do it just to know we can others on the other hand are looking for something better than what they have now sometimes im like this but if things are not fast enough in a relationship for a guy then he will flirt with other girls to see if he can get something better than what he has - now on the other u can look at this another way other than that too, he could be doing it without knowing it sounds wrong but its true he could be doing it cause he doesnt know how not too. Now if i was u i would talk to him before breaking^ with him talk to him first ask him if theres something that ur doin weong that u could do better or start doin like give a kiss before class or something that u dont do just make him more in love with u than u already are cause u say u love him well if u do than u will try to make it work rather than giving up on it. Thats my opion on it!
2006-10-18 13:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dauski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy that truly loved you would not even look at another girl, and yet, u have one that feels them up and flirts with them? i think u can find so much better and that he isn't worth your time if he likes other girls and u r too good for him anyways. I would break up with him and try to find true love and not fun and games. Love is patience. Wait for the right one because i don't think this guy is right at all. you are just gonna get hurt the longer u stay with him.
2006-10-18 20:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty more fish in the sea.
Why waste your time with someone that doesn't respect you.
He made his mistake once, so he should be walking on eggshells, not flirting with every female he see's.
Don't waste your younger years on a guy that isn't worth the time. It's best if you just break up with him, otherwise you'll only end up hurt.
2006-10-18 20:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your in High School! I doubt you know what true love is, but given the benifit of the doubt, you should call him on it and see how he acts. Or, confront the girl. And always remember, there are plenty more boys out there!
2006-10-18 20:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by airgame12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, move on. There are more fish in the sea. I just got out of a real bad relationship. He touched girls and let the girls touch him! You'll find sum1 better hun! But the choice is yours! Make the rite one k?
2006-10-18 20:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - this whole thing is temporary. It's not like you're gonna marry the guy!
Dear Yahoo Answers: Please create a new category Teenagers with Relationship Angst (Caution: Only for the mentally-challenged)!
I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!
2006-10-18 20:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him no matter how much you love him. He's probably going to cheat on you before you even know it.
2006-10-18 20:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes break up with him. if it was me he would be gone in a second. there is no reason why he should be doing that to you when you love him so much to even give him a second chance. good luck.
2006-10-18 20:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by steelersfan43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump him.i know he says he loves you but if he's flirting with another girl he doesn't really love you
2006-10-18 20:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
Any time you see one of the run on paragraphs you know the answer is that he is just not that into you.
2006-10-18 20:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋