I don't know him at all.
2006-10-18 13:20:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't and your kid asks and tracks him down and he is all 'l would have so been there for you' Then you willnever be forgiven
2006-10-19 07:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't tell him. Let him live his life free from resposibility while you are now committed to 18 years plus time. Don't worry about child support or marriage. the child is fine being a *******, I mean that is what the womens right would tell you. And the world has shown it to be true. As long as you are a millionaire and have the ability to hire a man to be in this childs life then you have everything covered. The world needs more girls like you so that we men can screw all of you and not worry about getting stuck with any problems.
2006-10-18 13:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by rkkcandi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would tell him that the one night stand got you pregnant. It touches me to hear this because so many young girls are getting pregnant before they are married. Not only that you don't know him but what he is about to say to you because you slept with him and didn't know him. I pray for you and I ask that you let your parents know as well because they deserve to know. So get ready for some hurtful talk from him the guy you slept with and your parents. God bless.
2006-10-18 13:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you must tell him. He can also get a paternity test done after the child is born. Even ifyou're both positive it's his, it will keep any doubts from ever coming up. Plus the child is his child also. Whether either of you like it or not, Child Support is required.
2006-10-18 13:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm kind of shocked at the answers here.... I was thinking you should NOT tell him... why would you want to connect yourself and the baby to a lifetime of committment to a man you don't even know.
Is he a big loser? Could be... probably is...
You need to learn your lesson and move on. Take care of that baby and get your priorities straight.
Forget the guy... he's nobody.
2006-10-18 13:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mary G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter if you don't know him he is still the father and he has the right to know and it's only fair
So Yes Tell Him
2006-10-18 13:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to tell him, after all he has to pay the child support right?
Dumbass, you've ruined this guys life and now you've ruined the life of a child besides ruining your own life by having an unloved child.
All for 5 minutes of sex
2006-10-18 13:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ah man! hello?? why? of course you have to tell him. are you sure it is his? get your act together and keep your panties ON. you now have a child coming - be a better parent than what you are now. no excuse for this bad behavior. make sure it is his and yes tell him. you have to. because you will need child support. kids are expensive. think of adoption. it doesnt sound like you were planning on a baby. DUH.
2006-10-18 13:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU BETCHA!!! IF YOU KNOW HIM OR NOT, YOU KNEW HIM WELL ENOUGH TO GET PREGNANT WITH HIM, HE HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW AND YOUR CHILD HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW WHO IS FATHER IS. YOU AREN'T DOIHNG ANYONE A FAVOR BY HIDING THIS INFORMATION, I KNOW HOW HARD THIS IS GOING TO BE FOR YOU AND I WISH I COULD BE THERE TO LEND YOU A HAND,
2006-10-18 13:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should be told!!! Good Luck!! Shame on you also for not having protected sex with someone you don't know....don't you realize there are diseases out there that can kill you!!! Hope all is well for you and the baby!!!
2006-10-18 13:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should. After all, if you keep this kid, it is his baby! You are keeping it rite? well it's up to you! if you really feel you should tell him, then go on honey! LET IT OUT! i don't really think you should keep it from him. Make the rite choice and good luck!
2006-10-18 13:24:01 · answer #11 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋