I have autism, and people see things differently out of me, for example, I flap my hands, and sometimes when peole are talking behind my back, I stare at them in a trance. They should stop. Should I form a group at my school, so that they could understand me more?
2006-10-18 13:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by Maninblack 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are different & many people (especially kids) are very intolerant of "different." I actually suspect those people who spend so much engery trying to fit in resent those who don't.
Recognize in most cases this is thier flaw, not yours. Even when they are reacting to an actual flaw of yours, we all have flaws. Just because you have a different set of flaws doesn't mean you have more flaws.
The more you try to get these type of people to like you, the less they will like you. Don't waste your energy on them. Find real friend who actually accept you & all your idiosyncrasies.
2006-10-19 17:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Smart Kat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are remarkably aware and eloquent for someone with autism. Take pride in that.
Do you believe in God? If you do, realize that HE makes no mistakes. Be grateful he though you were up to the challenge of your autism.
Pity those who fear what they don't understand, what's different and beyond their capacity. They are mean because the have no better way to cope. Make an extra effort to reach out to them, to show compassion rather than defensiveness.
Sure, form a group is you think it wil help you. Join in some activities with groups that already exist.
Watch the movie "Door to Door" with WIlliam Macy for some inspiration on living with challenges. It's based on a true story about a man with Cerebral Palsy, Bill Porter.
2006-10-18 20:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I congratulate you on your eloquence. I know a young man, similar to you...he too had the problem with gawkers and inconsiderate people. He chose to use it to his advantage and make them laugh, while educating them about his condition at . BTW..He's also now a comedian. And he gets paid for it. The key is to do what makes you comfotable. You are abviously a secure person who feels offended by the comments.. Start that group and educate those who are ignorant to your condition, and have fun with it. Just be yourself
I know you will and I know you will do it the right way! BE proud of who you are! Show them Freak is cool and freak is normal...and btw.. You are not a FREAK, Handicap, or SPECIAL.. You are an exceptional person with unique talents! ;)
Remember, sanity and conformity are over-rated.. I'm 35, a dad, husband and a cop.. I love my insanity and freakyness and I'm proud of it..
2006-10-18 21:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by J D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very smart!! Starting a group so people will understand you and autism better is a great idea. You know that people are rude to others when they are different then themselves so explain to them why you do the things you do..then they will understand..Good for you..and good luck with your group..
2006-10-18 20:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by tazzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are people that are totally ignorant. Although they may hurt your feelings try and pay less attention. You have been given life just as they have, what gives them the right to make you feel as though you are less than they are. People fear what they don't understand. Get on with life and be all that you can be-they are losers.
2006-10-18 20:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone knows about your condition, try to form some sort of education group to help them understand that you are not "freaky"
2006-10-18 20:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Erica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what makes you feel good. forget trying to change everyone else, concentrate on you. it's their loss if they don't get it.
2006-10-18 20:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by luvwbug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋