ok, so the preps at my school keep saying that i am screwing this kid named Dustin, and me and dustin are just really great friends, they tell everyone that i sneek into his house every night, and i don't know what to do. I have a b/f and i love him very much, so i am not cheating on him with dustin, i am still a virgin, and i don't know what to tell them to get them to stop saying that stuff...please help me!
2006-10-18 12:49:58 · 16 answers · asked by princess_anne_2009 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, they think he is cool but not good enough for him...and they think my b/f is lame and they have never even met him...me and my b/f have a long distance relationship.
2006-10-18 12:57:46 · update #1
Just ignore it. The more you pay attention to it, the bigger the issue grows. Believe me.
2006-10-18 12:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People would always talk when you are friends with the opposite sex. Ignorance is the best way to go, If your boyfriend knows that you are friends with Dustin then you have no worries. Hey you should feel a bit famous when your name is coming out of every ones mouth.
2006-10-18 19:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it!
For the rest of your life, you will know of people who don't like you. THey cannot rule your every waking minute.
Are the preps trying to break up you and the BF? Is one of the preps moving on the BF or Dustin?
Think about it!
2006-10-18 19:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Chuckles* So this is what you do- the first step in avoiding a trap is knowing the trap is there, ok?
So if someone comes up to you, and starts asking for details? Neither confirm or deny that you're sleeping with him. Think about it- they come to you, looking for details, and you start laughing. And you just grin and you neither confirm or deny it.
What are they going to do? If you confirm you're banging this guy like a screen door, so what? If you deny it, they're going to think you're lying anyway.
OK, so this is what you do- you do a mix of ineuendo, and flat out outragous lies. Tell your "friends' that Dustin is bigger than a horses penis- it hangs down to his knees.
Then a few friends later, tell them its the size of a cigarette butt- then, out there in "Liars Land" these two storys are going to be in conflict- have the confusion work for you.
People like drama. People like to know other peoples business. So set them up to look stupid.
2006-10-18 19:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since you and dustin are really good friends...should get with your boyfriend and play a prank on everyone. high school kids are sooo immature and ugh, im not sure what to really say because there are just so many good ways to get back at them! like spaying their car with shaving cream or stuffing their lockers with balloons...anyway, i hope they they arent too terribly harassing you and if they are, definitely talk with their parents...
2006-10-18 19:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem.
why don't you just screw Dustin and get it over with
you know you want him
Signed,
Dustin's Penis
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2006-10-18 19:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie - People are going to talk and say things. Just keep being who you are and let those people talk. It sounds like they may be alittle jealous. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin:)
2006-10-18 19:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you tell them wont matter they ll just keep making up crap, this may be hard to believe but they grow up after highschool everyone does and all thats happening to you now doesnt matter sorry but all your complainning about is bullsh** just have fun with your boy friend and finish school
2006-10-18 19:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by misticalmoon12000us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them they are whores and they need to get lives and not ge into yours...they are obviously jeaolus that u have a bf and they dont and they obviously have no life cause all they can do is talk about other people...girls are evil
2006-10-18 19:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by swmergal9313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares. dont worry about imature things like that. how do we know you're not? you should go along with it then spread rumors that you stopped sleeping with him, because he sucks so bad in the sack, and he's so small you couldnt even tell if it was in or not.
2006-10-18 19:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋