What are Some Basic Rules For a Blind Date?

Question

Iam so nervous..

Answer 1

Plain an simple. If you like her go with the flow, if you dont like her go on with the date but don't mil lead her too much dropp her gently. just tell her you had a great time and you look forward to having a second date with your next blind date...

Answer 2

1. if you were setup then safety is not so much of a concern, but if you met on the internet. Tell a friend about your plans and exactly where you are going and phone them if any plans change you go somewhere else.

2. Next,. think of this as fun and have fun time don't be so stiff or regimented, give the person a chance

3. think of some questions to ask before hand but stay away from exes, religion, politics and personal things, let these things unfold naturally over time.

4. don't drink too much; if offered alcohol and you are OK with it then fine, if offered but feel pressured then don't

5. Go with your feelings and instincts, give the person a chance but if you spend an hour or so with them and you feel no immediate vibe about them do not try harder or worry about their feelings its just not meant to be just be honest

Answer 3

Spend as little money as possible with getting to know as much about the person as possible.

1. Comment on how they look (if you like them to start). Nice dress, nice shirt. Little comments like that go a far way.
2. Keep the conversation going by not talking about yourself (unless asked). Ask them hows their job, do they like it, what are any career goals they may have, tried to slide in a joke or two if you can.
3. Be upbeat, don't be a drag or too laid back. Look attentive when they are talking and laugh at any small jokes(even if its not that funny, but don't laugh too much!)
4. Remember they are just as nervous as you are usually so try to break the tension with simple stupid conversation or something stupid in the news you heard (don't get too serious about the news of course, unless they do).
5. You have nothing to lose really, either they like you, meaning the date went well or they don't, so who cares you never see them again (no loss).

Answer 4

I've been on several blind dates, the one I was the most excited about the guy was wearing a trech coat, 50's slick backed greaser hair and chewed on a tooth pick all night. The last one I went on was when I was set up with my future husband! So it could easily go wither way. Basic rules are, don't talk about race religion or politics, be yourself, don't go into it with to many expectations. Go to have fun and meet a new person.

Answer 5

If this is a date is NOT being set up by a friend (an internet thing) than only meet the person in a public/generic setting and not someplace that's going to keep you there longer than you have to be if you don't vibe with the other person (or they you). In other words, don't agree to a formal dinner date. Definitely don't go to a movie. You can't talk in the movie and movies can actually be somewhat "intimate". Plus you're stuck with someone you can't talk to or may not vibe with for 90 minutes to two hours in the dark. Meet at a cafe where you can each bow out if you there's no click. This gives you an opportunity to see their hygene habits and how they approach food. Eating habits can give insights about a person's energy, pyschology, culture... If you can meet during the day (at lunch time), even better. If you totally click with each other than you can set another date for later. If you don't your out is that you have to get back to work... If this is a woman asking the ? try to meet in a place where you can position yourself to see the guy before he sees you just in case he's like really "bleeehhhh" :p and you can just not show up. I know that sounds (and is) chickeny, trust me if you see that the person is not your type it's going to be extremely ackward when you do meet face to face and you know it's going to be "eeewwww"! If someone did set you up just ask them to be extremely honest about this person's character, approach to life, their history with women (or men) and what they really look like. If it is an internet thing, get a current full body picture first! Don't wear a mask, be honest and real! Don't go to deep with personal info/dramas or too physical even if you do vibe. Dress to impress but not too formal or "sexy". Remember you want to be memorable but honest. Neither of you should expect kissing or overly friendly touching — unless you both just fall head over heels in love at first sight, soulmate click thing... I hope that helps...

Answer 6

Keep your blind on.
You never know what you're getting into.
Hopefully you'll be nicely surprised.
Just go with the flow,
You can make whatever you want of the date.
If you don't like him, just be casual.
You don't have to see the person again.
But if you do like each other it could turn into a long time relationship.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

i think the first thing to remberer is it was a blind date do be judgmental of the bat give that person a chance it might be just what you need or then on the other hand it may not if that's so let that person know nicely and respectfully.

Answer 9

Be yourself and don't be annoying>>I think people hate that ..Oh yeah I once saw this episode of a bad blind date that went wrong cause he alwayz talked about porn

Answer 10

Don't take her to The Waffel House.