I am asking this because it seems like every loud-mouthed, smart-a**ed guy I see has a really cool girlfriend (or wife) in tow. I don't mean to make generalizations, but ladies, tell me the truth. Is this how I should be if I ever want to settle down with someone? Are you really put off by nice, soft-spoken guys like me?
2006-10-18 12:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that, generally speaking, women who are more outspoken and extroverted will go for guys who are more like that. Likewise, women with obnoxious streaks will go for guys who are similar to them. I know that a lot of people tend to preach this "opposites attract" stuff, and that might be true some of the time, but I think most people tend to be happiest with someone that is kind of like them--maybe not their clone, but with a lot of similar qualities.
I think that if you single out the nice, soft-spoken girls that interest you (assuming that you are into this type), you should find some that would feel some sparks with you. But, if you like the loud women, you might be out of luck, because I would say that most of them go for loud, outspoken guys---unless they want a quiet guy that will stand back and let them have the spotlight all the time, and I don't think you want someone like that. I certainly don't, and I'm a soft-spoken guy, too (who also has crappy luck with the ladies---so you might not want to put too much stock in my advice lol, but seriously, I do think I'm on to something).
2006-10-18 12:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not obnoxious, exactly, but with a certain overconfidence that you can tell just by looking at him. I wouldn't date a soft-spoken guy because of the simple fact that I am NOT soft-spoken.
2006-10-18 19:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey watch it my bf is awesome and hot! But look some girls like smart soft spoken others are like me it's all in preference. So when u meet a girl that likes u then ask her out. Just remeber not every girl is a gothic vamp like me so just chill be your self and the right one will come your way eventually.
2006-10-18 19:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Stay nice and soft spoken. There is a girl out there who will appreciate you. You are a rare breed.
2006-10-18 19:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not obnoxious, but confident and funny yes !! soft spoken just dont match my personality, no sparks there, sweet as friends but not my type personally i like a guy to make himself at home, speak up, be funny, but never obnoxious.......in my family u have to fend for urself or be overpowered......good luck
2006-10-18 19:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's somebody for everybody....be yourself, be patient, and be on the lookout. You'll find somebody who'll appreciate you just as you are. My fiance isn't obnoxious or loud and I love him dearly.
2006-10-18 19:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by vgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well while I cant speak for other woman I can say that personally my self I am turned off by obnoxious guys
2006-10-18 19:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by wildone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN'T STAND GUYS LIKE THAT. I WOULD PREFER TO HAVE SOME ONE THAT IS SOFT SPOKEN AND MANNERABLE.
2006-10-18 19:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like obnoxious guys.
2006-10-18 19:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont be a loud mouth! so not attractive...
ive dated the loud mouth.. sometimes i just wanted to punch him! lol... so embarassing.
2006-10-18 19:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋