i started going out with my first ever boyfriend a few weeks ago...we have been friends really good friends for about a year and he asked me out at homecoming (we went together)
i am 14..
almost 15
hes 14 and has had girlfriends b4
and i would like to know from guys what is annoying? what do you like a dislike?
and from girls..any tips?
hehe
thanks in advance
2006-10-18 12:40:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u are unconfident, or too needy, that can be annoying
try hard to be comfortable, easy to be around, fun, nice, caring, sweet... all that "positive" stuff.... don't keep him on a leash, but don't let him treat u like crap either. he needs to be able to Respect you, and that will only happen if u take care of urself, make sure u are confident and happy and pretty.... that way, if he does anything mean towards u, it is HIM who is uncomfortable, not you. but if u were all bratty or catty or needy, You become the problem! so make sure u are cool, calm, sweet, but not smothering...and dont' let him get away w/ treating u badly at ALL. sometimes guys need to be "pushed" into acting nicely, and if u can be a good influence on him, he can hopefully respect that. when he acts up, it means either he's not used to being nice, or he is trying to get rid of u!
2006-10-18 12:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't act like you need him — for anything. It's stifling for him and pathetic for you. Give him the impression that you don't really need him to be happy, and he'll be more attentive to you.
2006-10-18 19:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you looking for things that are annoying? You should be looking for the fun, positive aspects of your bf.
2006-10-18 19:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity and not making up your mind like ' oh i dont know what do you wanna eat?' stuff liek that
2006-10-18 19:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋