Well i recently had some **** done with my stomach because i flipped a bike.. ok well thats not the point but My son keeps trying to crawl into my lap and hug me and things but i wont let him and I think he feels lonley so how can i make him feel not so left out without holding him and such lol?
2006-10-18 12:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by Exsavior my son is the coolest 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Alright and dont say his name is spelled wrong because first off its not .. the spelling gives it a spacific meaning
2006-10-18 12:47:56 · update #1
Maybe you can just do something as simple as coloring with him. Playing cars? do what you can to play with him. If he needs the touching connection like a hug. why not let him just sit next to you?
2006-10-18 12:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by lil_love1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't say a 3 yr old kid is lonely, might be boring... My son just like your son always bugs me all the time. But if you got his favorite toys to play or vedeo to watch such as Thomas, boys at the age all like choo train stuffs... Or just give him some crayons and tell him to doodle anything what he wants and later asking him what he drew... Just keep him busy or simplely give him a healthy snack like fruit or some icecream.. then he will be quiet for a while at least. That is my personal experience
2006-10-18 12:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Snowcrane66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son will understand if you explain what is going on in a way that he can understand. Let him know that you have a "Booboo" and that you would love to have him on your lap but you can't. Ask him if there is something else that you can do together to instead of him sitting in your lap. I am sure he'll come up with several ideas.
2006-10-18 12:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your arm around him, hold hands, a kiss on the forehead, its all about spending Quality time together, watch a movie, pop popcorn, play a game, color. Give him something to do so he is not thinking about being lonely. Its important for your son to feel the love of his parents, not just on the outside but on the inside too.
2006-10-18 12:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your son the situation and come up with a fun new way to show love! Tell him to squeeze your finger to show you how mush he loves you. He will think this is funny. Also do things like read to him and watch tv with him. Just tell him you are sorry he can't touch your Boo-Boo! Good Luck!
2006-10-18 12:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by tiff4ua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every toddler is diverse, so no rely what advice you get here, think of of your youngster's person character. some little ones thrive with lots of alternative little ones around; some little ones will do terrific devoid of. you recognize your toddler greater advantageous than any human beings, so which you will could weigh the advice and make an exceedingly final determination. i think of there are 2 vast components you are able to evaluate in the previous even asking your self with regard to the undertaking of friends. For one, do you have sufficient time to verify to this? think of of the chores and errands you get carried out in the process the week whilst he's in college. Will this finally end up stressing you out? are you able to have sufficient funds to hire a babysitter frequently to preserve a number of those issues? Can he pass alongside with you on all your errands? for yet another, do you have the abilities you are able to desire to tug this off? what style of particular help is he getting in college, or would be getting over here few years? are you able to offer that at abode? as a techniques because of the fact the buddies undertaking is going--are you keen to check out playgroups? He might desire to truthfully have greater relaxing with different little ones in a diverse environment. faculties can no longer catch all the bullying that is going on, and a few little ones finally end up depressing in school. Does he have close friends in college appropriate now? might desire to you manage for playdates for them so as that they might proceed to play at the same time?
2016-10-02 10:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just upset about how badly he is going to be teased at school because his parents didn't know how to spell Xavier.
I suggest you spend quality time reading books or playing games together.
2006-10-18 12:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should either have another kid that he could play with, or tell him to make some new friends!
2006-10-18 12:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's old enough to be told or shown about your "owie". Then he will understand that it hurts to pick him up or hug him!
2006-10-18 12:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just comfort him as much as possible...don't know how because i don't have kids myself.....lol
2006-10-18 12:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋