I know this sounds very irresponsible but, I got really drunk one night and ended up sleeping with someone. Needless to say it was unprotected sex. That following week, about 4 days later i slept with a guy who is now my boyfriend. We were protected the first couple times. Then we had sex unprotected the night before I got my period, and we had sex unprotected during my period. Now my feet are swelling and i'm having pregnancy symptoms. It's not time for my next period just yet. Do I go ahead and take a pregnancy test now, or should I wait until i miss my period. And if the test is positive, is it possible that the father is the one night stand? Or is it my boyfriends?
2006-10-18 12:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by soldiersgurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yikes...at least you're taking responsibility. Unfortunately to me (I'm no expert for sure) it honestly sounds like if you are prego it is the one night stand. I think that the chances of getting pregnant during your period are slim to none.
Do your best to stop thinking about it. Wait until a few days after your period is due, pg tests aren't accurate until then anyways. To be safe, stay away from alcohol, caffeine, etc. The stress of thinking about this could cause your period to be a couple of days late, so take that into consideration. What else could be causing the feet swelling - have you been eating a lot of sodium? Feet swelling in itself is not a pg symptom and generally is not something that occurs at the beginning of a pregnancy. Deep breath & best of luck.
2006-10-18 12:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by kcdc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you miss your period, take the test. SInce you had unprotected sex with both men, it is possible for either of them to be the biological father. The only way to find out for sure will be to do paternity testing later on. And I think you know that not only does your behavior sound irresponsible, it was in fact irresponsible. Irregardless of if there is a pregnancy, you should be tested for sexually transmitted diseases. If you aren't pregnant, it is time to think about going on birth control pills. And you should be using condoms regularly until you know for sure you are disease free (for HIV this means regular testing for 6 months) and have been in a committed relationship with a partner who has tested negative as well.
2006-10-18 13:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its likley that the one night stand might be because your feeling symptoms that come about a month er so into pregnancy unless your boyfriend and you had the unprotected a month or so ago. but you should wait till you miss your period to take a test anyway because then your mroe sure. and no matter whos it is love the kid because people who abandon one night stand kids cuz they dont know who the fater is are morons and you are not a moron right?
2006-10-18 12:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When is ur period due?u really can't get pregnant a day before your period..or on your period...You can only get preggo at a certain time of the month, when u ovulate. Which is usually about 14 days after the 1st day of your last period. If u had a period after u sleep with the first guy that means u aren't preggo by him at least.
2006-10-18 12:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i know your situation cuz i was in the same kind except i didnt get drunk the first one was my boyfriend and then i left him for a nother dude and 1-2 months later i found out i was pregnant and now he is 8 months and we are going to court on november 1st to get a dna test from the ex but i really hope he is my new bow friend but go take the take baby girl
2006-10-18 12:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell your boyfriend what is going on because if you leave it for later its going to be worst... Also get a pregnancy test ASAP. Remember that you are responsible for your own actions no one else. EFIL
2006-10-18 12:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol dude i had the same problem only the situtation was reversed and i was on the shitty end of the deal i got stuck with the bitchest woman that ever! lived haha but in turn she went away and i got my son the best thing in my life! well maybe it works out this great for you lol
2006-10-18 12:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Exsavior my son is the coolest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the test now. As far as who the father may be, it could be either man, you will need a DNA test to determine that
2006-10-18 12:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely take the test tonight if I were you. And if it is positive, don't panic. Talk to your boyfriend about it; ask him if he feels that you are ready for kids (though I'm guessing you aren't. No offenses meant!!) and if you feel your relationship can handle them at this point in time. You're just starting out and this is a bit much for the both of you, but it'll turn out fine, I promise.
Best of Luck,
~~Naomi
2006-10-18 12:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by lighted_crystal 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't anybody take responsibility for their own bodies any more? Don't people get married, THEN plan a family? Too many children without fathers! CRIPES! Get a grip on your LIFE!
2006-10-18 12:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋