I have a female friend name Jen. Me and her are both 17. We use to date but then I moved to a different state so we broke up. But now she lives in the same state and town that I live in. She is bi and she has a girlfriend right now. Me and Jen made out this past weeked. She has not told anyone about this not even her girlfriend
I do still love her and I want to be with her. I am gonig to ask her friends if they know how she feels. I think she wants to be with me. She also never wanted to break up even though we would be in different states. Now we live in the same state and town again.
What should I do?
I was the one who kissed her first. She then kissed me back and then we started making out
2006-10-18 12:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only way to find out is to ask her, talk to her and good luck.
2006-10-18 12:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from anyone who is "bi". It either means she's not choosy about who or how many people she may be with (which isn't safe for anyone involved, including you) or else it means she has some gender identity issue (which is too complicated and too difficult for you, as a potential boyfriend, to be dealing with).
You're only 17. It sounds to me as if Jen is convenient, and maybe that is contributing to your thinking about going out with her. Of course you probably care about her. She's your friend. People care about their friends. That doesn't mean she should be more than your friend, especially in view of the fact that she has a girlfriend right now.
Too much of a mess, too unhealthy, and generally too much for a young kid like you. Is there any chance this Jen is looking so attractive and appealing to you because you know about her sexual behavior and she has suddenly started looking more interesting than just being a pal?
Somewhere there is a young woman you will find attractive and nice and who won't have all the baggage that a once-friend/bi/ex-lesbian-relationship girl has.
2006-10-18 19:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And now you tasting what is between her girlfriends legs, you friend Jen is a whore seeing and kissing both of you, grown up, she lies to the girlfriend, she'll lie to your azz. Good Luck
2006-10-18 19:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I think that if you want to be with her, you should go up to her. Dont call her. I would go face to face or i would write a poem or a letter to her and explain how you feel about her. I not you could always be friends. Send her flowers too, or a box of chocolate. I bet she would love that. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-18 19:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the girl alone. At this point, she has already installed gf #1, so now you want her to commit to bf #1, and make you the "other guy".
Why would you want to do this to yourself??? Find one that's not attached.
2006-10-18 19:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you want to go out with a girl that is going out with a girl thats nasty but if you like that go head and ask her out if she kissed you back she likes you so ask her back out.
2006-10-18 19:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally hit that. You could score big time with her. Just think about it. But I say go for it.
2006-10-18 19:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is a bi and ur ok wit it.your just nasty. u need to find urself a straight gurl.
2006-10-18 19:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyways, either now or later, she'll leave u for some other chick.
2006-10-18 19:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should talk to her bout it it seems like she still loves you
2006-10-18 19:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋