ok so this guy that i liked im really shy around him and i was planing to ask him for the last 2 days and both days i was to nervous to ask...so i finally got to nerve to ask him and i did and he choose to hang out with his friends rather than me?...but then i saw him at skool today (we are 15) and i passed him in the hallway and he said something really rude to me? and when i see him he laughs at me...i put so much effort into doing this..im really shy so i had to force myself to ask..it was really hard for me to do...why is this guy doing this to me..i never did anything but ask a question :(?
2006-10-18 12:25:17 · 23 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be proud. You had the nerve to go up to him and ask him didn't you. Quit being so hard on yourself. Your still young. 15 year old boys can really be mean. Don't take it personally. If he really wanted to see you, you would know it. Remember there are a lot of guys out there. Good Luck.
2006-10-18 12:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by millie51058 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so proud of you for overcoming your fears and asking this guy out. I was always shy around guys too and would never had the nerve that you did. Unfortunately, this guy is an absolute jerk and was not worth your effort. Teenage boys are sometimes immature and rude. Just ignore him. There are lots of good guys out there who will be worthy of your attention.
2006-10-18 19:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms; at 15 you have along way to go and you may as well, understand this from the, some guys are JERKS. Move on and DO NOT LET him get you down. Find someone else. That simple.
Good Luck.
2006-10-18 19:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy seems to be full of himself i know he is flattered . he just wants attention . hay if a guy asks u out and u like him u will go but if u ask out a guy it makes him cool. so this idiot is taking advantage of the situation. let it go when he starts laughing at u start laughing too. and when he get curious just say i must of been an *** to even think of asking an idiot like u and thanks for turning me down . i don't deserve an idiot like u . good luck
2006-10-18 19:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by inna357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, the guys a jerk! i know you like him but you have to move on. I think you should find another guy who appreciates you and knows how to treat you. i guess you could also say theres more fish in the sea.... just go out have fun and find a guy who treats you right and respects you
**** good luck****
2006-10-18 19:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Samm the Bamf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's totally a jerk, or, more probably, he is embarrassed about saying no (or has an embarrassing reason for saying no), and is just trying to justify his answer by making you look bad (these are HIS self-esteem issues). In the end, he just might not be worth it.
2006-10-18 19:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY HE ISN'T RIGHT FOR YOU. I KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE SO SHY AND FINALLY MAKE YOUR DEBUT WITH HIM. IF HE SAID SOMETHING THAT YOU THOUGHT WAS RUDE IN PUBLIC, WHAT DO YOU THINK HE'D DO IF YOU WERE ALONE WITH HIM. THERE ARE OTHER FISH IN THE SEA. AT LEAST YOU FOUND OUT BEFORE IT WAS TOO LATE.
2006-10-18 19:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys can be like that, I would know I am one. It matters how you asked him, was it in front of his friends, a lot of people, and so on. It might be he's embarrassed or that he just doesn't like you (as sad as that sounds).
2006-10-18 19:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but watch out for the crabs!
2006-10-18 19:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by dwayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk! Just ignore him when you see him at school, don't let him bother you.
Chances are, when he sees he isn't getting your attention anymore, he will stop being such an a**.
2006-10-18 19:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋