2006-10-18 11:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i know this sounds bad but just tell her she is right works every time
2006-10-18 12:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by aimee R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You didn't give any details about what you fight about, or your age, but I have some questions for you.
Do you help around the house without being asked? Take out the trash? Offer to clean up the kitchen once in awhile after a meal, and let your mom sit down and rest? Offer to help fix a meal? Keep your room picked up and put your dirty clothes where she wants you to? Come home at the time you are supposed to? Speak nicely to your mom?
If you do these things, and you still fight, you need to sit down with your mom and ask her what she expects of you. Talk it out.
You kids have parents for a reason. They are trying to prepare you for the real world. Believe me, you will find that there are certain rules in society, and you will not be able to make your own! Show some responsibility and things just might change.
2006-10-18 20:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you should do. If you mother is a little bit on the disciplinary side, then you should keep your distance for a few days.Take it from an experienced guy that mothers and their children are more easily to make up.You should takeit slow and try to help her around the house until you see that shes always in a good mood.
2006-10-18 19:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by shaudoy1233 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Establish some rules for fighting fair. Post those on the fridge and abide by them.
(For example: No shouting. No insults. No interruptions. No long monologues.)
Breaking these rules requires an immediate ten minute time out.
2006-10-18 19:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are angry about something try to tell her using the words: "I feel"
ex: your mom thinks you should be doing homework instead of watching t.v.
"mom, I feel like you don't trust me enough to get good grades. I feel if I get A's and B's I should be allowed T.V. time".
***this is a step towards COMPROMISE. Try to remember that's the best you'll get away with, she is still your mother. :) Good luck
2006-10-18 19:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Christine4tw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to step back and pray. Check out the 5th commandment. Its the first one with promise and deffinitely changed my attitude toward my partents. Helped me a lot.
I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails!!!!!10-18-6
2006-10-18 19:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First understand that it takes two to fight. Your mom can't argue with you if you don't argue with her.
If you care to share more details then I'd be happy to offer suggestions.
2006-10-18 19:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when i lived with my mom we always argued but when i moved out we are like the best of friends moving out was the greatest thing for me
2006-10-18 19:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes42o2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to sit down and talk about the problem before it turns into the argument somtimes it does work
2006-10-18 19:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by cuteteddy34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job and move out, and if u cant do that try and appreciate her and show her some more respect
2006-10-18 19:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋