Any one in a polygamous realtionship who wants to give me some advice on comtrolling jealousy and anger about the situation I am in? I love my husband and my jealousy is taking bad toll on my marriage. I chose this life as his second wife, and it's not fair for me to take my anger out on him or his first wife, but I do sometimes and it causes problems. My email is my user name.
2006-10-18 11:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
it's normal for you to be jealous, try to be strong and not show your jealousy.
it's also the man's job to try to work it out in a fair manner that would satisfy both of you.
if he's not being fair he'll have to answer for God.
2006-10-18 12:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I find your question weird as I read the other questions you posted before.. About a week ago or something u said that you and your husband were divorcing cause he was having emotional affairs with women he met online, and in another post u said that ur marriage is finished and you will remain friends and here u r saying that u r married and chose to be a second wife..etc! I don't understand..
2006-10-18 19:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im so sorry. as you probably already know...having multiple wives is only possible IF the wife decides to it, the husband is financially and emotionally supportive to them, and if he Equally LOVES them.
i can't understand how men of the 21st century could even think of marrying more than one person. Do they not know what love is?
you love with your soul and he loves with his mind..it shouldn't be this way. i can tell you care so much about him and what i suggest is that you tell him exactly how you feel, i mean it. tell him you are jealous and your not liking it anymore...and your not happy
as a muslim if a wife is not happy should she continue being in the relationship? i don't think so. so he should support you no matter whatt..
good luck you can email me..
take care bye
2006-10-18 19:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah. There ARE real pimps left in the world. Cool. Why don't just become a bull dyke and get a stable of about 6 bad assed honeys and get freak nasty? That would be fair, in my opinion. Girlfriend...may cashews be upon you.
-Nut Goddess PBUH
2006-10-18 19:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You were taken advantage of. My advice is bring another man into the picture so he can show by example how not to be jealous.
Tammi Dee
2006-10-18 19:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he needs alot of wifes so he can strap bombs on you and send you out to kill the infadels. and on a nother note a wife should be second to none
2006-10-18 19:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by james w 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i hope you'll feel as miserable as his first wife and his kids
2006-10-18 23:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by TheWillBe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHEN YOU ENTER INTO A CONTRACT WITH SATAN THESE ARE THE THINGS THAT WILL HAPPEN.
2006-10-18 19:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by thewindowman 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋